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Loneliness of a woman
Women are most susceptible to loneliness – romantic, sensitive and superstitious creatures. In the “shackles” of their own morality and the incorruptibility of moral foundations, they, poor things, are forced to drag out a joyless existence, devoid of male warmth.
Take a look at the abundance of fortune-tellers, diviners and “corruption-removers” whose advertisements are full of newspaper pages, the Internet, to finally make sure that modern man devotes the most serious place to the arrangement of family life.
Marriage is far from heaven …
Let us not allow the servants of the otherworldly mind to profit from personal misfortune. And it is better to take a good look at whether the devil is as terrible as he is painted. And is the sacred bond of marriage really necessary.
In addition, the very procedure for formalizing a relationship, even excluding a wedding and a wedding banquet, is a very troublesome business. This requires not only colossal emotional costs, but also considerable financial investments.
Despite the fact that many are guessing about the problems of family life. For example, the lack of normal housing, lack of money and the upbringing of a possible offspring, which soon threatens to turn into a living hell. Potential brides and grooms are eager to acquire the notorious stamp in their passports.
Marriage, as you know, is voluntary. But before deciding on such a serious step, one must have an alternative option. What, first of all, should be analyzed by a person who is unable to acquire quiet family happiness?
There are advantages to living alone and free!
The benefits of living alone and free! Feel yourself in a permanent state of free flight, in which you only need to learn to control yourself, your body.
The problems of a lonely woman
According to statistics, women make up 70% of the total number of those who are suffering from celibacy. Consider the problems of the beautiful half of humanity.
Many single women think they have something fatal about them. They often repeat: “I have a celibacy crown…”. If a woman thinks that she is not worthy of love, then there will be no love. It is worth remembering that thought is material.
What is female loneliness? This is a lonely lady dreaming of “earthly paradise” – a depressing creature, ready to shed tears every second over everyday failures. In this case, you need to change! Give up the vicious practice of complaints about fate. Begin self-directed action.
Forget about past grievances and sly prejudices and look at the gentlemen with different eyes. Indeed, among men there are not only “intimophobes”, but also unhappy people deprived of life. Do not wait for a “prince on a white horse”.
It was not for nothing that Professor Freud argued that male love (for a woman, of course) basically conceals filial feelings. Do not please the newly minted boyfriends, but strictly exact for each of his mistakes. Dare to such an experiment, and fate will smile at you, surround you with a whole swarm of enthusiastic admirers.
Now, until the hour has come to part with the “golden time of loneliness and freedom”, use this time to the fullest. Please yourself! First, you have the opportunity to diversify your sex life indefinitely.
But don’t get too carried away with your current state. Otherwise, a “lonely woman” will turn from a way of life into a diagnosis or, even worse, into a fate. Therefore, the whole point is to constantly monitor yourself. Remembering that “free flight bird” is just fun, not a life credo.
Don’t overplay cat and mouse. So that the “insidious seductress” (whose role you have entrusted to yourself) does not cause fear in a part of humanity, which is called “the strongest”. So that men are not afraid of your frivolity and your cruelty.
The most important thing is not to let one of your admirers discover that he has a rival. Let him think he’s one of a kind. And endowed with all the features of an ideal man (even if in fact it is not so).
“Witch’s complex”
Think about yourself, remember about men, only in this way you can find the ingredients of everything positive “in one bottle”. However, do not start to rejoice prematurely by simulating the image of your “hero-lover”.
In real life, you are unlikely to be able to meet him (this is the law of nature). Beware lest the disappointment be catastrophic. The habit of separating the bad from the good, which was developed during the “molding” of the ideal, can poke a deep hole in your soul.
She will be that trench into which you can dive when some embodied angel decides to offer you a hand and a heart. You will inevitably consider a man who “encroached on your freedom” as a despot, villain, tyrant and tyrant. You will feel better, taller, more original than him.
This state of affairs in the language of psychology is called the “witch complex”. A woman suffering from this complex cuts off with her own hands all the ways of creating a family life. And again he returns to the problem of celibacy. Thus, fate completes the vicious circle, returning the sufferer to the starting point.
But in life, as you know, nothing repeats itself and nothing passes without a trace. Any experience, even the most unfortunate one, still matters – at least for self-knowledge.
It is not for nothing that the ancient Greeks said: “Know yourself, and you will know the world.” Learn, but do not forget about yourself, beloved. When the thirst for knowledge is finally satisfied, take a step to the side, break out of the vicious circle. There is happiness, it cannot but be!
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