In the radius of sexual fantasies, the woman has nothing to envy to the man and shows imagination. Unacknowledged or claimed, the fantasy of a woman is also often a source of curiosity for men. Do fantasies affect all women? Should we satisfy the female fantasy? Discovering his secret area …

Like erotic dreams, fantasies are sometimes a source of shame and often silenced. However, each one expresses at least once in her life a fantasy of a woman: expression of the conscious or unconscious sexual desire, it not only allows to feed the flame of a fulfilling sexuality but also to lead the couple to new experiences.

Woman’s fantasy: modesty sometimes requires secrecy

Unlike men who for the most part like to rely on their fantasies, women for their part are often reluctant to mention them, out of modesty in particular. In any case, accepting one’s sexual fantasies is not always easy: when a woman’s fantasy consists of having sex with another partner, when it involves violent sex or even a libertine practice of which the woman may be ashamed. , disturbing sexual fantasies are difficult to admit.

Confess your fantasies or not?

Whatever the nature of the female fantasy, admitting it does not necessarily imply fulfilling it. But when it can potentially upset the partner and call into question his prowess, it is not beneficial to share it with him and the woman’s fantasy can then remain personal. 

By expressing her sexual fantasies, the woman stages an erotic scenario in her imagination. Among the most widespread fantasies, the desire to make love in a public place. Restrooms in a restaurant, public garden, beach, car park, lift or workplace, locations vary. Another recurring female fantasy: the one that relates to a particular person. A teacher, a famous actor, a neighbor, again the object of the female fantasy can relate to various people. Easily achievable, fantasies that include the use of erotic accessories during the act are just as frequent: blindfolded or tied hands, the use of an anal plug or a dildo, all elements that can easily spice up the couple’s sexuality. Finally, the experimentation of a libertine practice – bondage, spanking, swinging or quickie with a stranger – also makes many women fantasize.

When the nature of the fantasies is such as to present a danger to the balance of the couple – threesome or adultery for example – it is not recommended to take action. For other sexual fantasies, the debate is mixed.

Some argue that the fantasy of a woman must remain in the order of the imagination, not only because its maintenance in the state of fantasy contributes to a libido necessary for the couple’s sexual relations, but also for the simple reason that to achieve a female fantasy can be a source of intense disappointment.

Others claim on the contrary that satisfying his fantasies, beyond helping to reach orgasm, can help boost the couple’s sexuality, when it is experienced. 

Making love in an unusual place, going to a hotel, using a role play, making love tied up or practicing swinging: most of the practices resulting from fantasies constitute new ways for partners to consider their relationship. sexuality.

When time wears out the couple, it is sometimes necessary to use a stratagem of this type to rekindle the flame and reboost the desire. By satisfying the fantasy of a woman, the lovers test new scenarios for a beneficial effect that is often guaranteed.

But fantasies not put into practice can also be beneficial, since they maintain the sexual desire of the partners. Satisfied or not, confessed or repressed, female sexual fantasies are therefore healthy.