Feeling of love

​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​The feeling of love is almost the same as the state of love.

The state of love is almost the same in content as the feeling of love. Difference in dynamics: in feeling there is more dynamics and less stability than in condition. The state is more objective, the feeling is more experiential and subjective.

Difference in dynamics: in feeling there is more dynamics and less stability than in condition. The state is more objective, the feeling is more experiential and subjective.

The feeling of love has natural roots (sexual attraction), but as a cultural phenomenon, as a creation of human imagination, it is a vivid example of creativity, fantasy and fairy tales. In reality, there is no love. Love lives only in a fairy tale. There is charm, tenderness, trust and intimacy. Read «The Tale of a Fairy Tale».

The feeling of love is very different, depending on the type of love. Similarity in one is a state of burning, liveliness, interest, attention and attentiveness.

The state of right love is characterized by the focus of attention, when it is not you, but the beloved who is in the center of the world. The focus is on him, not on himself. See Attention Focus in Love

The feeling/state of love of a mentally healthy person is characterized by joy (focus on the positive, faith), for a neurotic — fear and longing, fixed in sick attachments.

Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov

Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.