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I am glad to welcome you, dear readers of my blog! Today I decided to touch on such a difficult topic as «female psychology in relations with a man.» Women and men are very different, and a significant number of conflicts occur precisely because couples do not take this nuance into account. But, as they say, «he who is warned is armed.»
Features and recommendations
1. Emotions
It’s no secret that the beautiful half of humanity is more emotional and sensitive. Girls very rarely restrain their emotions and do not subject them to careful intellectualization. Therefore, be prepared not only to withstand the various emotional impulses of your beloved, but also the demands to show your feelings, and sometimes even accusations that you are callous and rude.
2. Reconciliation after a quarrel
As you know, after a quarrel, people take a step towards reconciliation. But the behavior of a girl can sometimes be surprising in that she, knowing that she is to blame, will still expect the first actions from you, and maybe even an apology. And if you have the role of a stable initiator of reconciliation, for the sake of your own emotional safety, explain to her that you are doing this, not because you always feel guilty, but because she is valuable to you and you want to save the relationship.
3. Pettiness
Lovely young ladies notice the details, sometimes losing sight of the big picture. It is this skill that helps them to notice at a glance that their loved one had a hard day at work today, that he is not in a good mood, and so on. We, dear men, need to see how the sweetheart is crying in order to understand that something is wrong with her, right?
4. Logic
She is inexplicable in lovely ladies, she is special with them and not always understandable to them. But their intuition can be envied, it is by it that they are guided at the moment of making decisions. And by the way, intuitive feeling sometimes turns out to be more effective, because it breaks any arguments and arguments into pieces.
5. Fantasy
A very highly developed fantasy sometimes makes it difficult to coexist side by side. After all, if she doesn’t know something, she will definitely think it out, and, by the way, not the best option. A man sometimes, for the purpose of caring, so that the sweetheart does not worry, does not tell about everything. And a woman, at this moment, thanks to the ability to notice and rely on her intuition, is already drawing colorful pictures of betrayal and betrayal in her thoughts. So be careful and remember this nuance if you do not want unnecessary difficulties and conflict situations.
6. Mood
There is a huge difference between the sexes in that women experience uncontrollable mood swings. So do not look for good reasons underlying her sadness or unexpected joy. Just accept it as a fact that her nervous system is less stable than yours. But it helps to adapt faster guys to different circumstances.
Remember, I talked about psychosomatic diseases, here? That is, those that arise as a result of the retention of their feelings, the inability to recognize them, and so on. So, this is why women are more resilient and have fewer health problems, although they seem unbalanced and weak.
7.Attention
It doesn’t even need deep psychotherapy to uncover a girl’s basic need for a relationship. Knowing that you love her, she will still constantly expect manifestations of feelings, confirmation of her attractiveness and sexuality. In this article, I said that the reason for cheating is often insufficient attention to your beloved. So, beautiful ladies need to feel irresistible and loved every day, and it doesn’t matter if she is in pajamas or a gorgeous evening dress.
Don’t skimp on the compliment, let her feel special. Then in a relationship you will be much more comfortable and calmer, without reproaches and quarrels on the basis of finding out whether you love her or have already stopped loving her.
8. Compassion
By virtue of their maternal instincts, women are more compassionate, therefore, if in which case she begins to worry and feel sorry for you, this does not mean at all that her beloved devalues your male part, which is able to cope with any adversity. Be wise in this matter and let her take care of you.
An important nuance is also the desire to share your feelings with the whole world. Therefore, be prepared for the fact that friends, acquaintances, colleagues and someone else will be aware of the details of your personal life. Here is such a need that helps not only to highlight emotions, but also to be aware of yourself in the process of conversation.
In addition, the beautiful half of humanity uses both halves of the brain when making decisions, while the guys have only one. And this affects the fact that girls are more talkative, faster, they pronounce words more clearly and so on. They just feel discomfort and tension if they don’t say a certain number of words during the day.
10.Love
Love and intimacy mostly come first in the value system. Sometimes it even happens that after the first date, she begins to dream of joint children, marriage ceremonies and other moments. Such is the nature, because even at the genetic level, the instincts of procreation and care for offspring are inscribed in their program. Therefore, such fantasies arise unconsciously, so you should not blame her for forcing events.
11. Understanding
Usually they are looking for understanding and intimacy, and they achieve this through frank conversations from the heart. And if you listen inattentively or even ask to reschedule the conversation to another, more appropriate time, resentment cannot be avoided.
12. Modification
Quite different features of the perception of treason. If for a guy this is the presence of a fact of physical infidelity, then for a girl it is also emotional. So, having paid attention to another, even a very pretty lady, do not be surprised if you are accused of betrayal. In addition, banal excitement can push guys to cheat, but ladies rarely lose their heads at the sight of someone sexy. “To the left” they go most often out of revenge for their mistreatment, inattention and rudeness.
13.Intimacy
Also the perception of sex, yes, they also want it and sometimes prefer superficial relationships as a mistress. But, despite this, sex itself is for them a way to get love. It is with his help that they can feel a partner, feel closeness, show tenderness or anger.
14. Listen
Remember the saying that women love with their ears? And this is true, because their auditory perception is more developed than visual, unlike guys. So, if your loved one does not receive enough recognition of her femininity and beauty, be prepared for the fact that she will start looking for possible problems, because of which your feelings began to cool. And they also like smart guys with whom there is something to talk about, so if it’s difficult for you to formulate your thoughts clearly, competently and interestingly, you may well be considered a person with a low level of aikyu, and this does not bode well.
15. Weakness
It is important for the fair sex to feel weak, but in good hands and under reliable protection. And even if before your presence she knew how to repair sockets and household appliances, then with you she almost loses consciousness when she sees a spider. And this is normal if unhealthy competition between the sexes does not turn on, when a nice girl tries to prove that she is much stronger, smarter and something else.
16.Help
She will feel happy if you help and fulfill some requests, considering this a manifestation of care and love. But if you do not notice the line where you need to refuse, and where to make concessions, then put up with the fact that you will be considered weak and spineless, eventually losing interest altogether.
17.Grievances
It just so happened that the weaker sex is more touchy and vindictive. So, watch how you treat her during a quarrel, otherwise even the slightest mistake will be remembered for you in every conflict, sometimes generalizing and exaggerating. And if you compare it with another, especially appearance, and not at all in her favor, then consider that you have signed a sentence for yourself.
18. Controversy
It may sometimes confuse and surprise you, but such is their nature, saying one thing, they feel another, and they do a third. Yes, sometimes, screaming at you to leave, she may actually want the opposite, thus provoking acts and manifestations of love. So, not always her “no” means actually “no”. No matter how strange it may seem. And if you are confused by its inconsistency, that you really don’t know how to understand what she feels for you, and the most difficult thing is what she really wants, then I can recommend reading this article.
19.Problem solving
One important rule is that if a loved one complains about some troubles and problems, this does not always mean that you need to urgently solve them. And especially devalue, saying that this is nothing, even if it is actually a problem as such. She does this so that you listen to her and just be there, agreeing that everyone around is bad and unfair. Therefore, in order not to find yourself in a difficult situation yourself, specify immediately how exactly you can help at the moment.
Conclusion
Today I have given you the main secrets that reflect the essence of most women, their inner values, guidelines and types of perception. But do not forget that each representative of the fair sex is a unique person, so the approach to her must be unique. So appreciate and love your ladies, no matter if she is your mother, sister or wife. In addition, tenderness and attention will not hurt, and even more so will not hurt anyone.