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If a woman begins to overtake a man in terms of development, if a man begins to lag behind, she becomes not interested in him.
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The strength of a family is made up of three things: a well-established life, the attractiveness of partners and the presence of community in the family.
- A well-established life is a good life base, well-established relationships, a competent distribution of family responsibilities, certainty with power in the family and (in which case) a culture of showdowns.
- The attractiveness of partners is their status, image, sex and love.
This is the physical form, both the image and sex depend on it. When we are unkempt, bent, twisted, with bad breath, it becomes much more difficult to love us. Therefore, a healthy lifestyle, go to bed on time, get up on time, be physically alert, do exercises, brush your teeth, etc.
- Community in the family is created by common values and views, common concerns and common perspectives, a necessary condition for this is trusting and open communication, the ability to negotiate.
Common concerns (children, cottage — if both are involved in this)
The couple is equal. Approximately equal level of personal, social and cultural development.
Family perspective
How to be a good wife
Becoming a good wife is not difficult: you just need to learn it. Surely you already know how to do almost everything: to be a hostess, the Sun, a friend and assistant to your husband. What is a good wife and how to learn it, see →
Personal characteristics of spouses and family strength
A strong and successful family is usually created by people with certain personality traits, namely:
- Intelligence level (both): adequate and above.
- The level of culture, which includes literacy, including psychological literacy (there is an understanding of what love is and what leadership is, they understand the need for conscious control of communication and observance of respect in discussing all issues with each other.
- Mental health level — good health
- The level of responsibility, including business (business line) — the leader of the family: a responsible employee and above.
- The level of emotional intelligence … — above average, apparently.
- Level of adulthood: adult (at the leader of the family).
There is one very important observation, in addition to this, both family members clearly understand which of them is the leader in the family. It doesn’t matter if a man or a woman is a leader, but both clearly understand who it is. If the leader in the family is a man, then the family, according to my observations, is happier (there is an assumption that this is somehow connected with physiology, and specifically with the glands that produce testosterone.
Proximity and development
People are close to each other, including when they have something interesting to talk about and they allocate time for this. In order for something new to appear between them, both need to develop. If you hold on to “we value time together” and do not part for development, the supply of previously interesting topics will soon be exhausted (everything will be discussed) See Proximity
Family relationships
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Family and work
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Laws of the Russian Federation on the family
Laws of the Russian Federation on the family