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Reproach is a small blow. It is good when the blow is not from evil and can be sustained.
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Interview with N.I. Kozlova
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There are at least two ways to establish family relationships: grinding and building. The path of the heart and the path of the mind. Women’s and men’s approach to building relationships. See →
How much and how much you love each other — this is one conversation. Do you live in a family, and which family is another conversation. And what kind of relationship do you have with all this — this is completely about the third. So how do you build and maintain strong and warm family relationships?
The strength of the family consists of three things: a well-established life, the attractiveness of partners and the presence of community in the family. A well-established life is a good life base, well-established relationships, certainty with power in the family and (in which case) a culture of showdowns. The attractiveness of partners is their status, image, sex and love. Community in the family is created by common values and views, common concerns and common perspectives, a necessary condition for this is trusting and open communication. See →
Good relationships are always easier to build in the beginning than to redo later. Initially, set the format and style of relationships that you consider mandatory. Inattention to this point in a relationship is fraught with future conflicts and showdowns. See →
To improve your relationship
- Figure it out, decide what you want: your goals and values in a relationship.
- Understand, decide in what specific forms and scenarios you need all this,
- Tell it to your partner in such a way that he understands it, and understand what the partner needs,
- Negotiate mutually acceptable options. See →
Options for solving the main issues of family life
About living together. Cohabitation of spouses is highly desirable as it strengthens the family and reflects a high level of relationship, but is not mandatory. Accordingly, it is not a tragedy if, due to some circumstances, one of the spouses decided to live separately. See →
About the right to privacy. Free people, entering into marriage, remain free people. The husband is not the property of the wife, the wife is not the property of the husband. See →
Loyalty and betrayal. People of high culture always agree on these issues. For everyone else, these questions are a source of ultimate danger. See →
How to maintain warmth and closeness in the family? For gratitude in family relationships, see → And also — “Secrets of Family Happiness” by Asher Kushnir.
Good training will help you
So that this is not a standard advertisement, but something understandable and tangible, I am attaching a pdf document that Rustam Sharipov sent me. He and his wife were at the training “Personal life: the joy of close relationships”, following the results, they outlined areas of work to improve their relationship, and a month later they sent this report on the results. We are happy for them. Perhaps you want the same joys, or maybe you will do something even better.