PSYchology
The film «The meeting place cannot be changed»

This couple loves each other. They have a WE family.

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The film “Private life: the joy of close relationships. The session is conducted by Prof. N.I. Kozlov and psychologist Marina Smirnova»

The «I am» family and the «We» family.

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Me+Me family and family We are two different family models. The first type of family is more suitable for young people, the second is more attractive for more mature people.

To whom the WE family is more suitable, and to whom I plus I

More often, the I + I family suits young couples who still live their lives strongly, naturally take care of themselves first of all and value their personal freedom. More precisely, independence — that is, freedom from the other.

“I respect your territory – you don’t climb into my territory. Well, well, let me kiss you, dear!

It is more difficult to build a family WE than a family I + I. Family We are suitable:

  • those who want just such a family (in reality, there are not many of them),
  • those who believe in the possibility of such a family (young people sometimes believe in such a family exactly until they try to get down to business from romantic fairy tales and “la-la”).
  • those who can master such a family, who have the strength and beauty of personality to build such a family.

The chances are greater for those who received an exclusive upbringing (well, there are wonderful families, left over from the old days!) Or who underwent special training in Sinton — although I still won’t promise everyone the desired result. Excuse me.

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