On May 18, the Domashny TV channel launched a new show “Sworn Beauty”, the heroines of which are women who have lost faith in themselves and their charm. Host Evelina Bledans spoke about her Woman’s Day program.
I really enjoy helping women. I love it when girls are well-groomed, beautiful, and I am pleased to be involved in this. In addition, in the program I myself can show off. In my other shows – “Everything will be fine” on NTV, “The Invisible Man” on TV-3, “Dacha 360” on TV channel 360 – there is a certain form of dress, but in “Jury” I can be different. I not only dress other women, but I myself constantly change outfits, hairstyles. There is such girly pleasure in this.
There are already a huge number of people willing to participate in new releases. I received hundreds of comments. And just yesterday I was at the dentist’s, and then an advertisement for my program sounds on the radio. And the doctor says: “Oh, Evelinochka, I am sitting here in my hat, my hair is wooden, I so want to come to your program.” I answered her: “Come to the next casting, but keep in mind that just being dissatisfied with your appearance is not enough, the heroine must have a story, by the example of which we will tell the audience about some problem.” What problems can there be? Variety. Here is a girl who suffers from a lack of femininity, wears men’s clothes and cannot establish her personal life. The other heroine has the opposite situation – she is a production manager, must be strict, businesslike, but she herself is cute and soft, like a Barbie doll, and cannot part with this image, start wearing a suit so that she is taken more seriously. We teach such women to be happy.
That is the difference. We do not just dress a person, but provide him with psychological assistance. First, I talk to the heroine tete-a-tete. As we chat, a jury show is watching us behind the glass, which we do not see. The jury is sometimes very harsh. My and their task is to see the problem, which lies not in the color of the hair and the shape of the nose, but in the head of the heroine. After our conversation, the girl goes to a psychologist, then again to me. And if I see that a woman who has already changed has come to me, then I give her into the hands of our stylist Alexander Shevchuk. The heroine goes to the jury as a different person – with a new image and wardrobe. If the jury passes a verdict that the girl has changed, she takes all the outfits with her and receives gifts from the program. No changes? Then all things come back to us. But I, as the host of the show, have the right to challenge the jury’s verdict.
Alas, many give up, start themselves, believe that if this man does not love them and treats them scornfully, then everyone else will behave the same way. It’s so simple, because of such beliefs, girls put an end to themselves. We must fight this! Men, after all, they are like trams, one left – the next will always come. You should never give up. You always need to be beautiful, in a “marketable” form. Many women lose weight for the bathing season, begin to engage in their face and body in the spring in order to show themselves on the beach. I believe that you need to be beautiful all year round. And it’s not just about ordinary girls. In the acting workshop, there are also such cases when women begin to shed excess and treat acne, as soon as work came, that is, there was a reason. At any time of the year, you need to understand that tomorrow you may be called and invited to appear in a swimsuit, or you will enter into a new love story. This is what I am talking about in my program. If you are ready for a new relationship, they will not keep you waiting.
Evelina with her son Semyon
Of course it does. Sometimes I really don’t have enough strength, and I understand that now it will be better for me to sleep. But if you choose between a sofa and a workout, I am in favor of sports and a walk with my son. In principle, I do not understand what it is – just lying on the couch or sitting in a restaurant. When you’re on vacation, yes, you can afford to read a magazine on a sun lounger. But even when I break out to the sea, I prefer not to passively rest, but to swim and walk.
Self-love is a thing that a woman should always keep in her head, whether she is the wife of a beautiful man or a single mother. If you do not love yourself, then no one will be around. This thing has been proven by time.
There are a lot of psychological tricks, starting with such a simple one, when a woman stands in front of a mirror and tells herself that she is the most beautiful, finds all the good in herself, correctly evaluates her strengths and weaknesses. These things work if people not only see the problem, but also try to fix it – they immediately go to the pool, gym. When self-persuasion methods are powerless, it’s time to see a psychologist. A new wardrobe or a haircut is no help here if the problem is in your head.