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We all experience desire — both women and men. But our fantasies are not always the same. Is there anything typically feminine in this area? What are the «objects» on which women base their sexual fantasies?
What a woman wants is a rhetorical question. But her erotic fantasies, voiced in conversations with a sexologist, are quite amenable to formulation. We will talk about the most common ones.
So the woman is dreaming…
about a man «in pieces»
In the erotic representations that women talk about, the man is strangely absent or appears in parts, each of which is in the center of the next erotic scene. It can be a hand, a look, buttocks, a penis … And very rarely — the whole man as a whole.
about nature
Women often associate their desire with nature, as if bodily arousal requires a wider implementation. They imagine that in a moment of human pleasure, all nature — wind, trees, sky — participates in the release of energy. From this arises the idea of a cosmic pleasure that goes beyond human perception.
The fantasy of exhibitionism is most easily realized in women in a striptease.
about liquid
As a continuation of fantasies about connection with nature, there are fantasies about one part of it — about liquid. A river, a stream, rain, tears, the secretion of the world… Women’s desire is also fluid, and in it there is an idea of a certain world pouring out with water.
about the gyno
Gynekei — the female half in the ancient Greek house. In a broader sense, this is a place where women can freely talk about their desires, about what the body wants, about sexuality. There are only women around, united by the «great absence» of the penis, they are busy with their bodies and prepare them for love. A thin line separates these fantasies from lesbian ones.
about love together
As a natural consequence of abundance, pleasure beyond the human mind, one often hears from women that they dream of sexual relations with two men. One is not enough to see the sky in diamonds.
about exhibitionism
Being a sexual object in the eyes of another and dominating him by making him look without touching. Let yourself be contemplated, remaining the mistress of your desire and controlling the whole process: a fantasy of exhibitionism, which is most easily realized in a striptease that arouses direct and strong desire.
about animals
Animals often appear in the sexual fantasies of women. Not only bulls, horses, donkeys, but also birds, frogs, wolves… The memory of children’s fairy tales evokes a feeling of fear and deep fascination with this bestiary.