Erotic dreams: how to interpret them?

Decipher your erotic dreams!

The sexual dreams dress up to send us a lot of important information about our libido. They allow us to discover our true desires, our hidden urges, our complexes, our frustrations, in short they are messengers coming directly from our unconscious.

Erotic dreams advance masked

Everyone is doing erotic dreams. Some are more common than others. Make love with your stars favorite is number one. Comes next make love with your partner’s best friend. In third position of the ranking, we find, make love with two men at the same time, then be initiated by a woman or a stranger to new erotic games. In fifth place there is make love under duress (with a desired partner), then get paid by the man of his life, make love in a bathtub, a swimming pool or the ocean. In eighth position comes the dream of making love on a beach, in a car or a public place, then receiving and spanking with handcuffs, riding crop, stiletto heels and corset as a bonus. And finally, be the ” woman object »From a perverse and imaginative initiator like the character in the film Emmanuelle.

Interpreting sexual dreams

Be careful, it is not enough to have erotic dreams, you must also know how to interpret them. And it is not so obvious because when you dream, all the characters represent you, you are the hero, the victim, the spectator, the stranger, etc. And everything that happens to each of the characters in your dream is a reflection of what you desire or, conversely, what you fear. The other reason that makes erotic dreams difficult to interpret is thatthey often express a desire buried by its opposite. For example, if you say no to a partner in the dream, that means yes, you really want to! I like it, means I hate it, it disgusts me, means I would very much like to test, etc.

Erotic dreams ignore the prohibitions

To find oneself surrounded by several partners as beautiful as each other, making passionate love with the colleague, the actor, the gym teacher who makes you crack, all those dreams of multi-partners who allow the heroine or the hero (remember, you can perfectly become a man …) to get laid with several partners, are fulfillment of your desires. Dreaming is magic. Thanks to it, you can experience at night what you do not experience during the day, you virtually fulfill your fantasies, in fact you anticipate by sleeping the varied pleasures that you intend to experience one day or another. A sword, a knife, a candle, a snake, a key, a fish, a dolphin symbolize the male, if there is any in your dream, it is because you want a man.


Another peculiarity of the dream: it drops the censure. At night, morality and prohibitions no longer have the power to muzzle our impulses. Goodbye principles, long live freedom. For example, we can dream that we seduce the husband of his best friend when in reality your code of honor and friendship forbids you even to look at him … Often, our unconscious tries to make us understand than our real ones desires are exactly what we consciously refrain from experiencing. If every night you turn into a provocative vamp, an easy woman, a object of male fantasies from X movies, ask yourself if your sex life does not lack a bit of spice … Falling, putting on makeup, wearing a mask symbolize a desire for adultery. Brushing your hair symbolizes masturbation. A cat, a pig symbolize sexual instincts.

Unspeakable desires reappear

Thanks to dreams, we can explore all the facets of his deep self ; but this trip sometimes holds surprises. Bisexuality, homosexuality, exhibitionism, voyeurism, sadomasochism, swinging, all the libertine tendencies that one does not assume during the day can be revealed at night. Never forget that this is your imagination. Even if you are not explicitly present in the dream scene, it’s about you, you star in it. It can give you ideas to spice up your sex relationship a bit, but it doesn’t have to be, sometimes dreams are enough. As for the interpretations, they are always on several levels. Dream of making love in a public place for example, apart from a certain penchant for exhibitionism and the excitement at the idea of ​​being surprised while making love, it must also attract the attention of the dreamer about his actions in his public life. Is he exposed to criticism? What is he about to announce to others?

Dreams express and relieve our frustrations

Nothing better than dreams to find out where your sexuality is. If in real life you are bored in bed with your partner, for example you will dream of galloping on a fiery horse … Woman-horse fusion is a metaphor for sexual embrace. The horse is an animal which symbolizes instinct. Flying, swinging, dancing close together, brawling symbolize sexual intercourse. Shooting with an arch, with a pistol, symbolizes the tension of desire. A cave, a well, a flower, jewelry, an ear, a shoe, symbolize the female sex. If there is any in your dream, it’s up to you to interpret the message from your subconscious according to the situation these objects occupy. If in dreams, partners are virtual, the pleasure they provide is very real.

According to sleep experts, having an orgasm while dreaming is quite normal. Different studies on sexuality report that 80% of men have nocturnal orgasms compared to only 40% of women. When we know the benefits of orgasm (relaxation, fight against stress, etc.) we can only advise you to let yourself be carried away by your senses when you fall asleep. For example, fall asleep thinking about your favorite star or about a situation that particularly turns you on… If you dream of climbing a ladder, lightning, fireworks, an erupting volcano, you dream of climbing a ladder, of lightning, of fireworks, of an erupting volcano. ‘Orgasm. The smoke, the rain symbolize the sperm.

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