Many attractive unmarried women, but few unmarried men of worth.
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Is it true that there are always fewer decent men than normal women?
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Among women, a sad statement is often heard that there are no or few decent men. Oddly enough, in this case this is not a myth, it is true: statistically for every two decent women there is one decent man. However, the conclusions that can and should be drawn from this are not obvious. Moreover, as a rule, incorrect conclusions are drawn from this, but in order to understand this, you need to understand this issue in more detail.
On average, 107 boys are born per 100 girls, 105 boys are born per 100 girls, somewhere around 18-20 the number of boys and girls is approximately equal, by the age of 30 there are 90 women for 100 men. Thus, at an age of interest for an active family life, the number of men is about the same as the number of women. However — attention! — now the most important thing.
With all due respect to “men in general”, it must be admitted that specific men differ greatly in their quality in general and, in particular, in their suitability for living together in a family. There are very worthy men, there are ordinary and different, and there are those with whom no respectful woman will connect her life. It is clear that most of the men are of ordinary quality, average men, and if the entire population of men is drawn on a graph where the quality is vertical and the quantity is horizontal, then all this can be easily depicted in the form of a standing oval. So, if we draw the female population on the same axes, then we will get an oval of approximately the same area, but lying: see the figure “The ratio of the number of men and women in different categories.”
What does it mean? This means that, in accordance with the theory of V.A. Geodakyan, the male population has a significantly greater range of advantages and disadvantages than the female population. Simply put, the bulk of women are generally quite decent people, but men are very different. Among men, there are always more people with deviations in any direction.
Who has more alcoholics: men or women? Men. Who is more, men or women — unable to have sex? There are more impotent men than categorically frigid women. Who is more likely to commit crimes and end up in jail? — Men.
The indicators of eliteness are the knowledge of one’s goals (J. Kennedy).
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This does not mean that men are worse than women, it’s different. According to genetics, nature experiments on men, and all the most reliable and proven is invested in women. Males are born initially with a greater range of qualities than females.
Growth: it is men who more often turn out to be both giants and dwarfs; women, as a rule, most often have normal, average height. Intelligence: among men there are more morons and geniuses, while women often have normal, average worldly quick wits. Among the homeless, there are usually three or four former men for one former woman, but among the saints, male faces are more common … Women are normal, men are with special features.
Hence the difference in the shape of the oval: the population of women clusters tightly around average quality, all women are mostly of average decency, the oval is lying. And men have a much larger spread in both directions, both up and down, the oval is standing. And from this follow the most serious consequences.
To describe them, let’s divide both populations, both male and female, into three parts. The middle is normal men and normal women. Below — unfortunately, sucks. Above is the elite.
The name is conditional, but it is difficult to choose a better one. These are not elite, but simply the best men and the best women. I would like to believe that you have met beautiful, decent, healthy in mind and body people in your life. Or be sure to meet.
What is the life situation of a woman, let’s call her Masha, if Masha is an ordinary average woman among ordinary women. She is interesting to men, men are interesting to her, only: what kind of men are we talking about? Men in the “sucks” category will have to be crossed out right away: completely degraded men are not interesting for Masha, she does not consider them. We will cross out 100 out of 20 men. Unfortunately, men in the “elite” category will also have to be crossed out: princes are looking for princesses, Masha has little chance there. From the remaining 80, we will cross out another 20.
In summary: for ordinary women the situation is unfavorable: for every 100 normal women there are only 60 men with whom one can seriously start a normal family. It is clear that such a situation objectively puts women in conditions that are not very favorable: men have a choice, and she is forced to act in a situation of fierce competition. In this situation, a large number of women make a decision — to fight for men, learn to actively win their attention, quickly tie them to themselves and keep them by any means. If there are no free men, such women are ready to beat off men already married, including those of their girlfriends … It seems that such decisions are still not worthy.
For lower-level women, the situation is even more difficult. If some girl turns out to be not even Masha, but an accessible Masha, that is, at the lower level among normal women, in fact, on the verge between normal girls and those who are difficult to call women, then it is even more difficult to discern the prospects for her family happiness: decent men they won’t call her as a wife, and the rest she herself doesn’t hurt and need. Sadly. No amount of psychology can help here.
However, there is light at the end of the tunnel, you just need to go from the other end, look at the situation from the point of view of worthy people, people of a high level of culture. What is the life situation of the most beautiful, most intelligent, decent and worthy men in all respects? On the topic of «dating girls» — of course, there are no problems, but finding a worthy girlfriend is not an easy situation. Few women meet his requirements. Not that he was overly picky, but objectively there are few women above the average. Dating different women is fun, but listening to her nonsense, but imagining that such a woman will become the mother of his children, that she will take out her irritation on them — no, I want something more decent. And where to find such wise, attentive, loving?
This is the best way out for the wisest girls and women.
Smart and worthy girls should not turn into female bitches, should not be engaged in mastering the skills of capturing and holding men and tracking the subversive activities of rival girlfriends, who are always needed from their husband drive away. If a girl spends her time and energy on something else, namely, to raise her level, raise her personal qualities to the level of an elite woman, her life situation will change in an amazing way. She no longer needs to hunt men, these are men, and the most worthy men will line up, seeking her attention and her consent to become the wife of the best of them.
Total: the personal life of a woman radically depends on what level of woman she turned out to be. If she didn’t particularly look after herself and, as a result, she doesn’t represent anything special, she will have an objectively difficult life ahead, it’s objectively difficult for her to find a normal man. If the girl thought about her future in time, did not take up worries, but began to work on herself and developed herself into a personality above the average level, then life opens her arms to her. The most worthy men will be at her feet and will be happy to take care of her all their lives. And she will choose the best of them and will love him all her life, because she knows how to choose, and build relationships, and love. After all, she is an elite woman! Girls, this definitely makes sense.
For more details and specifics about what an elite woman is, what qualities she possesses (should possess) and how to develop these qualities in yourself, see the relevant articles. And even better — come to the Sinton Training Center, the oldest and largest training center in Russia, where these qualities can be developed in a group and under the guidance of a leader. It’s always more efficient.
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