Two ordinary women. One is the Experiencer, the other is the Doer. I wonder which one of them is the manipulator?
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The man-doer is opposed by the man-experiencer — the one who, in a collision with a difficulty and a problem, without turning on his head and not daring to act, begins to ascertain and experience the problem. Look for an opportunity to accept what happened. This attitude is more characteristic of female psychology, see →
An experiencer is a type of person whose defining characteristic is a propensity for feelings and experiences (rather than deeds and activities).
Distinguish! An experiential personality is a type of personality, the addition of the features of a neurotic and a human child.
Experiencer — according to the method of motivation, this is a Processor (??).
The Human Experiencer is opposed by the Human Doer. See Doer and Experiencer
Experience as a way of life
The doer is determined to solve his problems and achieve his goals at his own expense, with his own deeds. In terms of goals and values, an Actor can be both a Creator and a Consumer.
In contrast, the Experiencer burdens others with his problems and wants to achieve what he wants at their expense. In terms of goals and values, the Experiencer can be both a Parasite and a Romantic. By design, it is more often a human organism, by the method of motivation it is a Process Engine.
Experience as a game
Within a man-woman relationship, being an Experiencer can be a woman’s game. There is no man, the man is on a business trip — the woman is quite active, she solved all her problems herself. The husband arrived, the wife sits, batting her eyes in confusion: “Here, the light bulb has burned out …” — Of course, here the husband will feel powerful and proudly screw in the light bulbs.
And the wife is happy!