The house is a mirror of your world, which means that you can see a reflection of problems with a partner in it. You just need to look at space from a different angle and figure out what the reason is.
Often the cause of scandals in the family is the lack of personal space. Ask yourself: do you have a place in the house where you can relax, be alone, enjoy the silence and rest? What about your spouse?
Some men love the sofa in the living room the most. If you have a living room with such a sofa, if the man is comfortable on it, half the battle is already done. But what about a woman? Does she have a place to rest? Harmony is important, otherwise the spouse will be annoyed by the husband lying on the couch, and then conflicts cannot be avoided.
Therefore, it is extremely important that a woman has her own place, and, as a rule, a comfortable, beloved chair is suitable for his role. The opportunity to relax in their corner allows the couple not to heat up the atmosphere, not to impose their society on each other. Sitting quietly in a chair with a book is sometimes the best remedy against emotional outbursts. There you can sort out your feelings before throwing them out.
For any of us, personal space in an apartment is an outlet. There you can relax from worries, do what you love. For example, read, draw, knit something. You can relax, calm down, and in this state it will be more likely to avoid conflict.
If we figured out the rest, then let’s move on to the topic of sexuality. It is directly affected by the surroundings of the room where you sleep.
The sofa is not the best option for a marriage bed. Therefore, we recommend buying a comfortable bed, which is better to choose together with a partner. Then place it so that it is convenient to approach it from two sides.
If you want to avoid emotional storms, fix the faucets, change the tiles
For both partners, you need to put a bedside table, table or pouf, so that it is convenient to put things. If you didn’t buy the linen and bedspread, replace them: this will help get rid of the influence of other people on your life together. If you want to relax in bed, remove items related to religion (icons, crosses, images, figurines) from the bedroom.
The space that particularly affects the sensory world of the family is the bathroom. If you like the decoration of this room, if everything in it works properly, then we can congratulate you – your love relationship will survive any pitching.
But if the taps are leaking, the blockage is not washed off, the color of the tiles is annoying, and it’s scary to step on the floor with your bare foot, then your relationship may be in jeopardy. What is it connected with? The bathroom reflects how its owner copes with experiences, how much he is able to free himself from past grievances, whether he enjoys relationships.
If a person cannot put things in order in this space, then how can he cope with his feelings? Our house is a projection of our life. The condition of the bathroom illustrates the ability to enjoy the pleasant everyday little things, relax and trust your intuition.
Therefore, if you want to avoid emotional storms, fix the taps, change the tiles. If there is not enough money for a major overhaul, replace the curtain, rug.
And may your home be as strong as your union. Having made it cozy, having worked on its beauty, you will create a space in which you can enjoy each other and not be distracted by annoying trifles and inconveniences.
About the authors
Olga Agdasi – psychologist. Together with Natalia founded .
Natalia Arabadzhi – interior designer in the field of space organization.