It is difficult to find a person who does not want to be liked by other people. When someone likes us, it’s nice, it inspires, it makes you want to live! No wonder, because then they pay attention to us, say nice words, help in business.
But not everyone can say that other people really like them.
Here, I live, I live my own life, and people around me don’t pay much attention to me. Words pleasant from people only on holidays I hear. And so that someone can help, yeah, right now! Apparently people don’t like me.
If there is a prevailing perception in a person’s life “I don’t like others”, then it is difficult for him to live easily and joyfully.
The main mistake of such perception is the idea that people themselves will see something good, interesting in you and will be drawn to you. Usually in life, people are often busy with their own affairs, and do not tend to pay attention to others. It is difficult for them to distinguish you from others of the same surroundings.
In fact, a lot more people like you than you might think at first glance. If you approach a person, smile at him, start a conversation, then most likely he will quickly feel sympathy for you. He liked you even before that, it’s just that he didn’t know about it even then! Until you get into the field of attention of another person, until you somehow declare yourself, he is unlikely to be able to notice you. This is important to remember.
The perception “I like others” is a kind of credit of trust to others, it is a belief in the positive beginning of people.