Discontent is once a feeling, sometimes an expression of dissatisfaction with a situation, people, circumstances, etc. It usually occurs in a person with a low emotional tone when the desired and real situation does not match. In developed people, dissatisfaction is created and expressed in order to put pressure on someone, sometimes in order to force oneself to do something or change.
Situational and short dissatisfaction (a displeased expression of the eyes or displeased intonation) tells others what a person likes and what not, and in this respect it is quite acceptable. If discontent is used often and a lot, it creates more problems than helps a person achieve what he wants. More effective — requests or orders.
Dissatisfied «Where are you going?» provokes protest. Polite «Move to the left, please!» — is understood better, and the person is likely to go to the left.
Life story (narrated by Olga)
A sign of a healthy psyche is to see the good in everything FIRST.
Walked the dog in the park. A drunken company of 4 people was sitting on a bench. They had bottles of beer in their hands, empty ones lying next to the urn. I approached, silently, BUT without reproach in my eyes, collected the bottles and threw them into the trash. SILENCE hung in the air. Then, I said, “Hello guys. You can ask — when you finish drinking the beer, throw the bottles into the trash. Thank you, have a nice holiday.» Everything was said by me very respectfully, without reproach and moralizing.
After they left, there were no empty bottles on the ground.
Dissatisfaction with life comes from the fact that people do not value life and do not know how to rejoice. And real joy comes from a life in which you have lofty goals, worthy tasks, and you can confidently cope with them. Whoever sets himself such a task will achieve it.