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Dialogue is impossible, understanding is unattainable, life is ruined. What if there was an impenetrable type next to you? First of all, you need to understand well who you are dealing with. Coach Leonid Krol offers several psychological portraits of “difficult” men and women.
Men
- “Honey, I’m a complete jerk and I’m not going to change”
“What am I good for?” “No, you can’t pity me. Because the measure of my suffering is too great.” “And in general, I have already outlived my life and just wait for death.” Such words are absolutely nothing to cover! Against this background, any needs of the other partner are petty and selfish. “Are you expecting a child from me? It’s your selfishness.”
- “Come follow me, but live faster!”
“Can’t you make it? Or do you not want to at all? Well, chicken!
- «Bu-bu-bu…»
“What you said?” “What he said, he said. I had to listen.” It’s better to guess. A woman must be a psychic, otherwise why would she be?
- “My wife must be perfect”
“Honey, what’s wrong with your face? Pimples?! Take it out immediately! Oh, is that a chest? Urgent increase!”
- “You can’t do anything right”
“Done? Well, yes, it’s your responsibility.” “As always, from the fifth time?” “Could have done better.”
- “Don’t Blow My Brain”
“What do I care what’s for dinner!!” “Why should I know about what happened at your friends’ – they are your friends, not mine!!” “Are you implying that I don’t earn enough??”
- “Children scream and interfere with me. Do something about it”
The wife has to manage, and I carry out the general management.
- “Yes, yes, now”
This man wants nothing. Either he is, or he is not. A woman is allowed to be around (if she does not move and does not talk about her).
- “How many times have I told you”
“Put yogurt on the second shelf. And you bet on the third. “And you forget to put your toothbrush in a glass. I go all the time and clean up after you.”
- “What else is this Vitya liking you for?”
You can excite such a man only so that he does not believe you, but you must constantly throw into this “cauldron”. And it’s tedious and dangerous.
- “What else do you want from me?”
“I give money, and also talk to you?”
- “Don’t like it, roll.”
90% of the time a cruel boor, 10% of the time the most charming person in the world. It is very difficult to peel off and stop waiting for 10%, which will eventually turn into five and one.
- “I’m not an alcoholic”
Habitual rescue of a drowning man. In the end, one way or another, they drown together: he is in vodka, she is either in vodka too, or in tears.
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Women
- Clever
Knows everything best. Cannot trust anyone to make a decision – because everyone is indecisive and does not take responsibility. Maybe she’s the only one. Exhales, complains, but drags. Everyone around is to blame, and above all this mumbler.
- Smart-2
An expert in a narrow issue: if you make a mistake in a letter, you will destroy it with one contemptuous glance. In general, contempt is her main emotion. These make the worst teachers.
- Offended
Underestimated, unfairly bypassed, looked at wrong, said wrong.
- Squirrel
She jumped, grabbed a nut, buried it, forgot where she buried it, grabbed a bump, gnawed it, threw it away … Fragments of thoughts, fragments of deeds and conversations, but she herself seems very businesslike.
- Vzhik-vzhik-vzhik, take away the finished product
Just got it, already done. Everything is on fire in my hands. Literally. He does everything extremely superficially, he does not know how to delve into, the main thing – faster, faster. He snatches it out of his hands: let me, me, me!
- Pretty child
Forever infantile. Small dog to old age puppy. She gets carried away and cools down, chirps naively and thinks that she should be loved simply because she is cute. Why do anything else?
- “I am the best”
And if you don’t think so, then you are the enemy. In others, he sees only flaws.
- Everyone owes me
And most importantly, in the end everyone agrees with this! It’s easier to give than to explain why you don’t want to.
- Scandalous
Rights fighter. If there is no battle, there is no energy recharging. In general, it is not hopeless if you wear a helmet and dodge pans.
- “Is this fresh?”
When choosing a wallpaper, he will review all possible sites. Eternally peevish expression, pursed lips. Husband got sick? “It’s very inconvenient, who will pick me up from work.”
- Hot stuff
In fact, she doesn’t always want sex, but she has to keep her reputation and “keep dinner hot”. Otherwise what would be the point of all this? It’s scary to be without meaning.
- boring hippie
Search yourself. Spiritual quest. Spiritual throws. Being truly original is scary, but you can look at the original others and copy.
- Young lady
Stylized as something that hasn’t existed for a long time. Or maybe never existed.