Development of self-confidence

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A confident person is a successful person. This is not all you need in life, but it is with gaining real self-confidence that begins a life for which you can respect yourself.

Is it possible to develop self-confidence? Yes, it is quite possible. Many young men and women at one time could not boast of believing in themselves, they were not able to impress others as strong and confident people, but they wanted to — and they became confident, developed the necessary qualities in themselves. It is possible and necessary to develop self-confidence, but be prepared for the fact that this work is not always fast and involves efforts in several, quite different directions. This is the creation of a strong life base, and the development of useful chips, and strengthening a sense of self-confidence.

The one who has ground under his feet is confident in himself: a knowledgeable, experienced, professional, prepared and protected person. Nothing builds self-confidence like strong friends and good security! It is impossible for a person — a «dummy», an incompetent person, to learn to be confident without developing himself: it’s the same as bringing down the temperature of a patient, instead of treating the disease.

To feel confident, learn and gain experience: develop communication skills, learn to get to know each other, speak in front of an audience — learn things that are important to you. Get smart: read good (not empty) books, write down your conclusions, discuss your conclusions and thoughts with smart people. Make sure that you are often surrounded by reliable friends that you would like to be like. Real confidence is one that has something real, a real life base under it.

On the other hand, it is foolish to wait for everything around you to develop. Confidence starts with you if you start building it in yourself. To overcome their insecurities and gain their confidence, a person needs to do something with himself. Why isn’t this happening?

Or rather, why aren’t you doing it? Someone is a coward, someone is lazy, someone has made it their lifestyle, getting their own benefits from it: the constant help of others and the opportunity to attract attention to themselves. Which of these reasons is about you?

Those who want, look for opportunities, those who do not want, come up with explanations. «I have complexes.» «I have low self-esteem.» “I’m not confident because my girlfriends are prettier and bolder than me” — can you explain anything, what are you going to do with this? “I don’t believe in all these methods”, “I don’t believe that I can succeed, I never succeed!”, There can be any number of excuses and excuses. If it is important for you not to understand, but the result, then remember four points: Energy. Believe in yourself. Confident behavior. Correct life philosophy. Your task is to increase personal energy, acquire a sense of self-confidence, develop the skill of confident behavior and adjust your life philosophy.

Confidence starts with you. Follow the numerous links to this article, set yourself feasible tasks and begin to develop the necessary skills and qualities in yourself. Start working on yourself. How? See →