Decision making during and during the consultation

Psychological consultation

If a person needs to make a decision, then at a psychological consultation, with the help of a consultant, he weighs all the pros and cons, takes into account the life experience of the consultant and consciously makes his own decision.

Psychotherapeutic counseling

The woman is worried that she cannot make a decision in any way. It is not so important for her that the decision was optimal in life, her normal internal state is important for her so that she does not torment herself with uncertainty.

But she is still worried not only about her condition (here she would need operational psychotherapy), she wants the decision to be at least somehow balanced.

If a woman needs to make a decision, but she can’t do it in any way and feels helpless, she comes to a therapist for counseling. The consultant helps the woman find any possible (not necessarily optimal) solution, creates her confidence that this is her decision and pumps up her resources, giving her a sense of the correctness of this decision.

For example, the therapist tells the girl that she has an unconscious that already knows her right choice, and that she can ask her unconscious for her right choice. The girl believes a respected specialist (why not?), closes her eyes, enters a trance, calms down, lives her difficulties against the background of relaxation (a typical desensitization procedure), after which the girl makes a choice that her unconscious makes for her. The therapist tells her it’s good.

Solving life problems by men and women

Since men are more characterized by reason and will, in solving life problems they understand and need more advice. Women are more impulsive and prone to feelings, so counseling is closer and more understandable to them in solving life problems. See →