A family is strong not only when the spouses have established relationships, in addition to the ability to build relationships, it is also important to be able to get out of conflicts. These are different things.
So, for some couples, everything goes perfectly, smoothly and evenly until the first quarrel like: “you made black tea, and I asked for green tea.” And suddenly this conflict reaches such an extent that people conclude: “I lived with the wrong person all my life,” “She seemed like a completely different woman.” After a single quarrel, a man makes a decision that he will regret for the rest of his life.
The ability to build relationships is one thing, the ability to resolve conflicts is another. There are people who build relationships clumsily, but who know how to get out of conflicts easily, painlessly: they quarreled — they made up, and everything is wonderful with them, as if they took a cleansing shower.
What is important to get out of conflicts easily? It is important to be able to convey your point of view to another person, it is important to see the point of view of a partner. The most important thing is to remember that people important to you are around you, and ask yourself more often: “What is more important to me? Rightness in this matter or the opportunity to kiss the one I love?