Courage and interest — or fears and worries

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Men are courage, calmness, confidence, curiosity, interest and development. Women are fears, anxieties, worries, fears and concern for safety. The male strategy is to go forward, look for something new, be a scout, develop, desire to be the first, win! Women’s strategy is conservative, it is important for her to keep what she has, she would prefer not to be the first, but behind the first. A man is interested in acquiring something new, a woman is afraid of losing what she has. A man is attracted to constructive tension leading him to victory, a woman prefers relaxed comfort.

Perhaps for this reason, a man appreciates freedom and achievements, and a woman rather chooses home comfort and familiar comfort↑.

Since it is natural for a woman to worry, it is natural for her to assume that other people also live in fear. Namely, they easily attribute fears to men where men do not assume this in any way. You should not take at face value female phrases like “you are afraid of smart women”, “you are afraid of independent women”, and so on. Any preference not in favor of this woman will most likely be interpreted as your fear, cowardice or self-doubt. Do you like young people? — so you are afraid of mature women. Do you like housewives who can create comfort at home? — it means that you are afraid of self-confident, independent, self-sufficient women. You are weak.

Phil Zimbardo Experiment: Fear and Curiosity

Philip Zimbardo, as part of research on gender differences, conducted an experiment that showed an order of magnitude greater tendency for girls to be afraid, and boys for interest and curiosity. See →

Is it possible to consult friends and relatives?

Can friends and family consult? Different people understand this question in different ways and give different answers to it. Women’s position: No, you can’t, it can ruin the relationship. Male position: Naturally, you can. Why not help your friends when they ask? See →

Male and female roles

A woman in the role of the Parent is Mother or Hen, in the role of the Child is the Grateful Dandelion or Caprice-Splinter. A man in the role of the Parent is the Father or the Rooster, in the role of the Child the Explorer or the Hooligan. A woman is more often allowed to be in the role of a Child than a man, a man is more often obliged to be in the role of an Adult than a woman.

Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov

Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.