Conflict people are people who more often than others generate around them.
Character traits (types) of conflict people
1. Emotionally unstable
Emotionally unstable, excitable, touchy people. He agreed with you that we will be at peace, we will discuss everything, and the next week it flared up again. He apologized a day later, and flared up again a week later. And all my life it’s like this — you can’t change it anymore. What is nice about these people is that they apologize, they try to do something, but, due to the fact that they do not control their emotional world, they again flash.
2. Sutyazhny-paranoid
How they differ from all the others: with a good facade — he smiles, greets you — you feel that tension emanates from him. A smile on the face, and the eye is very attentive, suspicious. And very interesting things happen in his head: intrigues are woven around, a conspiracy is being prepared, everything is against me, I live in a hostile, aggressive environment. What phrases can be used to capture this? Suddenly, during a conversation, he says: “They wanted to offend me here, but we broke off their horns. My eyes are so black: if someone hurts me, it will be ten times worse for him. Again he looks at you and releases such a phrase: “I would not want even a hair to fall from your head, your mother is as dear to me as mine.” What does he mean? He, like a decent person, warns you for the last time: do not intrigue, do not weave intrigues around him. Everything has already formed in his head that you are plotting against him.
It is impossible to seriously agree with such a person, he has a different psychology. You need to distance yourself from them. If this is in your family — this is your cross, this is something on which you can train all your life in stress resistance.