Confident behavior: corset of success

Confident behavior is behavior that expresses inner strength and calmness. This is a relaxed body without clamps, no fuss in movements, a calm expression on the face, a calm, direct, not “running” look, a clear, not confused speech. The body corset of confidence supports confident behavior: the habit of keeping a straight back (royal posture), straightened shoulders, high neck, confident gait, clear gestures.

In cadet schools, the development of a corset of confidence is an obligatory moment in the training of future officers. Elements of the corset of confidence are often used in the training of leaders and leaders.

A confident person looks straight ahead, walks calmly, gesticulates boldly with his hands. A confident person has his own style of communication and characteristic turns, demonstrating his status and confidence. Confidence is the courage to declare oneself: not a “squeaky” sonorous voice, not constrained by the clamps of the vocal cords, loud confident speech, certainty in wording, decisiveness in conclusions, the ability to declare one’s desires and insist on one’s legal rights, readiness to give orders and demand their implementation.

Note: a confident person’s direct (bold) expression of his desires is not accompanied by aggression towards the interlocutor. Aggressive behavior, when the rights of another are violated, is no longer confident behavior.

Confident behavior helps mental health, and insecure behavior is a source of internal problems. Lowered shoulders, a dreary look and eyebrows like a house will provide you with a huge number of problems, difficulties, fears, horrors, troubles and other entertainments inherent in life. Those who are used to keeping their posture — those usually have fewer questions, but more strength and positive. Add to this an attentive, collected look, confident gestures, and you are ready to face difficulties. Accustom yourself to a confident gait and posture!

Whenever something unpleasant happens to you (even if it’s small — someone criticized it, a minor trouble happened), meet it by straightening your shoulders and creating a beautiful posture for yourself. See how your worldview changes…

Feeling confident and confident behavior are interconnected. Confident behavior is helped by the correct internal state, and the state of confidence is strengthened by confident behavior. Try it! To feel confident, start behaving confidently. The one who behaves confidently, who keeps himself confident — begins to feel more confident. By behaving confidently, you convince yourself with your confidence. Nothing convinces a person like his own behavior. Of all the types of self-hypnosis, hypnosis with your own body is one of the most effective. In addition, by acting confidently, you convince others with your confidence, and they begin to treat you accordingly. Which is the most convincing for you.

How do people know who the Boss is in this situation and how they should treat you specifically? They don’t know, but you tell them. Report your behavior. Most people live according to patterns, and they are usually satisfied with any pattern — as long as it is confidently presented to them. So tell them that you need to be treated with respect, as one of the Masters of Life, and so that they do not suffer from doubts, do it as confidently as possible.

Tips for girls: When going to dances or even singles parties, cheer yourself up. Pretend to be a movie star. Keep your head high as you enter, as if you were stepping down the Miss Universe ladder of honor. You came to this city for just one evening, and if someone does not understand his own happiness, this is his problem!

At the party, take your hands: even if you are not thirsty, take a glass of drink: in this case, you do not have to bite your nails or twist your hair around your finger. Don’t show that you are nervous. Act like everything is great, even if you just dropped out of college or got fired from your job. Walk confidently as if you know where you are going, even if just around the room. Move. Don’t stand in the corner waiting for someone to come up to you, let the men catch you in motion.

And the basis of confident behavior is training. To become confident in your behavior, practice. In any, the most alarming situation, at dinner you will get into your mouth with a spoon. Why? Because you have been eating like this for several decades, because this skill has been worked out. When you thus, by training, accustom yourself to behaving naturally confidently for you, then even in an anxious situation you will behave confidently — simply because you behave that way all the time. Start by straightening your back and start speaking loudly. Louder than before. And why not? Others speak loudly, they can. Try it yourself and see what happens. Most likely, nothing terrible will happen, and your confidence will begin to increase.

Mark yourself: new behavior will be easier for you to develop in a new company (new environment). Think, maybe sign up for some courses, or a section? It is convenient to work out new, confident behavior for you in stores or in the market — where people do not know you. There, no one will be surprised by your loud voice and confident statements, and gradually you will transfer your new skill to your familiar environment.

Confident behavior should simply be mastered, one should accustom oneself to it.