Confidence starts with you

​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Confidence starts with you.

To overcome their insecurities and gain their confidence, a person needs to do something with himself. And the majority of those who complain about their insecurity, either do not know how to do something with themselves, or do not want to, in any case, they do not have the ability and habit to work on themselves.

If there is no simple skill, this is the simplest situation — it is not difficult to learn. If a child at one time learned uncertainty, then in any more adult state, confidence can be taught and mastered. It’s a skill just like any other. It’s all about the time and effort you’re willing to put into it. And also — do you know how to work at all, because you have to work on yourself. One way or another, whoever wants to master it will always master it. Everything is possible, everything is real, see «How to work on yourself.»

Much more difficult is the situation when a person inside himself is not ready to seriously change anything in his life. He does not want, he is afraid, he is lazy, one way or another — he is not ready. It is easy to find a lot of excuses and excuses here: “I don’t believe that I will succeed”, “I don’t believe in all these methods” … What to do with it, see →

If it is important for you not to understand, but the result, then the main areas of your work are:

• increase in personal energy

Energy lives in you both in the soul and in the body. Start with the body: straighten up, straighten your shoulders, smile and say to yourself “I am joy!” Train yourself to walk more energetically, and only run up the stairs! If you remember your favorite peppy melodies and get used to singing them — well and out loud too, then your life will become more cheerful, and you will be more confident. So, look — Energy!

• gaining a sense of self-confidence

Not everyone who has ground under their feet feels it as their support. Knowing you’re right doesn’t always make a strong voice. And there are arrogant, self-confident people who are confident in themselves even when there are no grounds for this. How to increase your faith in yourself, strengthen the feeling of your strength and your capabilities? See Confidence

• developing the skill of confident behavior

In any, the most alarming situation, at dinner you will get into your mouth with a spoon. Why? Because you have been eating like this for several decades, because this skill has been worked out. You also just need to work out the skill of confident behavior, and then even in an alarming situation you will behave confidently — simply because you always behave this way. See Confident Behavior.

• adjustment of life philosophy.

If for some reason you think that someone else should solve your problems for you, and not you, then you have an unsuccessful life philosophy, it is difficult to go through life confidently with it. Accustom yourself to the position of the Author: “I thought — I will do it!”, After that, by the way, it will be much easier for you to be friends and cooperate with people. People can help, it’s great and it can be used!

Useful trainings

To increase self-confidence, it is useful to undergo Confidence Training.

What’s next?

Confidence starts with you, with your personality, but it’s only the beginning. If there is nothing behind you, except for your personal characteristics, this is not enough. We also need a living base. Nothing builds self-confidence like strong friends, a well-established business and a good security service! Sometimes we can influence it. See →