You can find your mate — but will it make you happy?
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Love is love, and having a head on your shoulders is useful. Appropriately evaluate those who are close to you, it does not matter if it is a child or a child-adult.
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Do we choose our favorite?
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Choosing a life partner.
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The choice of a life partner is a vast topic. People of different cultures and nationalities choose their life partner in different ways, people of different ages make their choices in different ways, there are peculiarities of choice for men and women, plus people have different values, their own level of culture and development …
If a person has love-passion, the choice for him is made by his body. If a person is closer to love by calculation, everything is determined by the type of his (or her calculation). If a person follows the path of service, love is possible as a choice, commitment and dedication …
Why do men choose some women and pass others by? This question was answered well by one mother, who trained directness of expression and weight of tone in the course of raising three sons alone. When one friend was worried that no one wanted to marry her, her mother said: “Because a wife is a help, not a burden. What kind of help are you? Only one burden. Nobody is taking it. Why does someone need an extra burden in life?
In this article, we will focus primarily on women who live with feelings, but are friends with their heads. The choice of a life partner is a crucial moment. The one who here relies only on feelings usually has many vivid experiences, but not of the highest quality and not for very long. If you have any serious intentions about the family, you need to turn on your head in the matter of choosing a life partner: as at work. Please keep your head up! At work, if we want to be successful, we think. It seems that here it is all the more important not to make a mistake, therefore, we learn to think calmly and carefully.
Firstly, some of the applicants just need to be cut off. Indulges in drugs or is addicted to alcohol — not our person, we cross it out. Hot-tempered, all the more cruel — similarly. Other questions to think about when choosing a husband: Who are his close friends? What is his reputation? What is his relationship with his parents? How does he treat the elderly? How does he feel about money? Does he have a normal profession and how does he feel about it? Can I deeply respect him?
Young people, tips for you too. If you don’t want trouble for yourself, don’t get involved with touchy people and those who are sure that you need to live with feelings, and not with your head. Questions to think about when choosing a wife: Does she show love and respect? Is she trustworthy? Does she know how to run a household? What will her family expect from us? Is she wise or rather the other way around? What does he like to talk about? Can she care for others, or is she only absorbed in herself? Does she like to meddle in other people’s affairs? Is she ready to accept her husband’s supremacy or is she capricious?
To discuss these questions in more detail, use the Family Agreement Questionnaire.
It is curious that matchmakers name four main circumstances for selecting a successful pair, these are:
- Education (coinciding level of education, cultural level)
- Morality (coincidence in «can-not», interests and values),
- Love languages (a strong mismatch of love languages deprives people of mutual understanding) and
- Tempo (emotional tone and speed of speaking).
A separate question about «Like — do not like.» “I don’t like people who like me. And those who like me don’t like me!» — a very common sadness (often female) and a topic for consultation. What do we recommend? Expand your circle of acquaintances and work on yourself so that those who will be of interest to you are more often interested in you. Come to the Training Center «Sinton». Train yourself to think like adults at the “Communication Mastery”, at the “Management of Emotions” training you will stop being offended and become the Sun, at the women’s trainings add the charm of femininity to yourself. Everything will work out!
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The “I am the Sun” test is a convenient way to find out your prospects for family happiness. Only a woman who is a Queen herself will meet her King. And what can you expect? By answering simple questions, you will receive a portrait of a man that you can claim. If you are ready to work on yourself, we will also give you recommendations on what you should pay attention to in order to make your personal life happier. Take the test…