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confidently walking along the path of life,
after you showed him the way.»
In the beginning there was an idea
Of course, it all started with UPP and the DYNASTY project, but it was Svetlana Satina who inspired me and Tatiana Vandysheva with the idea of the Children’s Distance. Under her leadership, we decided to develop a scenario for the personal development of the child and set a goal — with the help of Distance, to educate in children such habits as organization, leadership, sunshine — and many, many others.
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But as? We decided to test everything on our children first. For some reason, it immediately started working. Soon more volunteers were added to our experimental group, things started to go! Today we already have two groups of 8 people, age — from 6 to 14 years.
Video: Moms about the results of the Children’s Distance
What are our top priorities for ourselves and our children? Believe it or not: our children learn to wake up and go to bed on time, learn to monitor their speech, prescribe a daily plan, set goals, organize themselves.
Those are the little things, right?
Children learn this on their own. Voluntarily. With enthusiasm and desire. We ourselves do not fully understand how this works, but so far everything works.
Children’s motivation system
How did we get our children interested in Distance? First, we have long infected them with our own example. Secondly, we created their own Telegram group for them, which is cool for them. They, like adults, write plans and fill out checklists. Previously, they just talked, and we scolded them for it. And now they tell each other about their successes and give each other feedback. This is even more interesting for them, and we admire them!
They brag about their successes, and this is their job! They support each other — and they also get points for this! They learn responsiveness — and they quickly begin to like it!
From my own experience
At the first lesson, the children were told what distance is, what format we use for communication. We took two exercises for practicing — Royal Posture and Remove Netki. From that day on, my daughter tried on the status of a small student. She has a business for which she is responsible not only to herself and to her mother, but also to new friends. On January 26, I wrote my plan for the day for the first time. In the evening, she marked the completion of tasks with an asterisk.
For three weeks, I kept regular records of each day of the Children’s Distance, comparing it with what it was before. I want to share the changes that are happening with my daughter.
Waking up at 7.00:4 in the morning — five out of seven days. A stable schedule is developed to wake up at the same time without whims. Does exercises with me 7/XNUMX days. Smiles and reminds me to smile. The sun is a separate issue. Our sun often hid behind a cloud during the day, and stubbornly refused to look out. Now we have a checklist, where at the end of the day we put a mark for a smile. Much more smiles. And today I was pleasantly surprised when she got up in the morning and said that it was time to do exercises. A new habit replaces an old one, and that makes me happy. Keeps track of nets. If he pronounces them, then he crouches three times. Previously, she refused to squat, justifying this by the fact that she does not play this game. Now she has connected the class, squats, makes others squat. I became much more active. School subjects are also being pulled up …
It all looks like magic. Distance changes behavior, manners of communication, habits… Children are getting smarter!
What other parents write about the results
Life has changed so dramatically for the better. Nika likes it, and I see the first results of our work. The child knows how to start his morning, monitors his speech, gradually disciplines himself and does all this with pleasure. And the most interesting thing is that she does this not because her mother said, but because she works in an excellent team and dreams of being better than yesterday. The results are stunning… If the result is stable, the children get involved and the parents continue to work, then the Dynasty project will really become a reality.
Katerina is 10 years old and before DD she already knew a lot of things that not all university graduates can do in the field of self-organization. However:
Before | After 6 weeks DD |
In the morning I woke up after my third entry into the room, got drunk and went to douse myself | She gets up, does exercises, goes to pour herself. |
Speech-rattle and cheerful, lover to argue, and as a result, the first word in the conversation: «NO» | Thinks what he says. Builds phrases in a positive context, looking for the right verbal constructions to do without netki. |
She kept a diary and a checklist for household chores. | The same thing, + household chores have become more mature, + helps her sister with household chores, or rather the rationality of their implementation: “If you clean it now, under the trash can, then later there will be more time for games ..” |
Posture. I tried, I would like to see this even back without my presence. | In 80% of cases, he sits evenly at the dinner table and at the school desk. |
Always smiling, albeit serious. | I realized that we make our own mood and in a dispute with my sister she became calmer, she behaves like a person who understands that shouting and tantrums will not give a result, but calmly explains everything to her 10 times. Although it happens, like those puppies, they start to get at each other, but it’s more like a game — conscious. |
Marina is a first-grader for almost 7 years. I didn’t do Distance exercises with her. The main emphasis is on the older one, and the older one brought up the younger one.
Before | After 6 weeks DD |
In the morning I woke up with a fight and a sleepy shower. | She gets up on her own, but only after the older one. He does exercises, goes to shower. Joyful kiss runs. The morning is positive. |
On netkam-I do not even know how it was. Used, but the hearing did not cut | She hears other people’s nets, but it seems to me that she still does not understand the meaning of the exercise and does it like everyone else |
She kept a diary and a checklist for household chores. | He now leads him every day, without missing, without my reminder, and household chores, this is taken for granted. Disappeared bickering from the series: “Why me ??” |
Posture. Hunched over, elbows on the table — received constant comments. | Consciously tries to be even. If I make comments to her, she corrects her posture and that’s it — without antics. |
Always serious with wet eyes. | Forces himself to smile! Herself. She knows that she has to write a report and score points and pulls this smile on her face. And the mood improves! From my favorite state of sadness, I learned to switch much faster than before !!!! How long I led her to this, and now the first shifts have been outlined. |
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I am very pleased with the results that the children have, and it seems to me that the following Distance exercises for children are already such a possible reality. They can do it, they want it!!! The whole task is only in the hands of parents to help them correctly!