PSYCHOSOMATIC OVERWEIGHT MAP
Excess weight for everyone is deposited on the body in different ways: some have “butt ears”, others have their sides, and still others have their hands with jellied meat, and further down the list. And yet again for a reason.
Emotions are energy that accumulates inside, concentrates and turns into matter, that is, into adipose tissue. Where exactly this energy settles is a question that is studied by modern psychosomatics. There is, of course, an understanding of this process “on average in the hospital”, but in an amicable way this process is individual, since each person reacts differently. One of them, for example, has a twisting stomach from resentment, another has a heart ache, a third has a noise in his head. If you observe yourself, you will notice how the body reacts to events. For example, they quarreled with my husband about raising a child, did not receive support – they responded in the uterus. Or you got the 105th claim from your mother – you feel like you wanted to push me away, and there was a heaviness in your hands.
But let’s walk through the basic logic of storing excess weight.
CHEEKS. Curvy people tend to look younger than their age. They are childishly kind guys. There are problems with separation (separation) from one’s own parents, from one’s own determination, from parenthood.
THROAT, NECK – connects the head (thinks) with the body (does). Fears associated with the implementation of the plan; the inability to do as you want. Plus the story of your flexibility in life – the ability to “twirl” your open-mindedness. Throat – and this is about the fear of shouting out, showing a voice. Yes, and a large heavy lump of tears also lives there – many of them swallow it out of habit, and do not cry it out. After all, strong girls don’t cry.
SHOULDERS – fear of showing their weakness, not coping with the assigned duties. The load, which is filled with stones of obligations, resentment and pain, you drag along with you. How long?
We hug or push with our hands. Accordingly, the inability to do the first and second can be the reason for the excessive deposition of fat on the hands.
It is difficult for such people to say no, to fight back and show their openness as well as to trust. And they are characterized by excessive responsibility, overprotection, overprotection, bordering on mania and the desire to seem good to others. They are constantly looking for the approval of others. At the same time, they are sufficiently constrained in the manifestation of warmth, tenderness, affection. In the past, many of them have experienced rejection and betrayal.
LIFE AND HIP – in 99% of all cases, we run into the following:
gender. Unwillingness to identify with a woman 100%. The conflict of accepting oneself as a woman in all its diversity: sexy, soft, passionate, weak, sensual, alluring, caring, warm. Plus fear of competition with other women;
Wilhelm Reich, one of the founding fathers of Body-Oriented Therapy, said that in general, all fears live in our belly. As I wrote above, no wonder, because it is not for nothing that the intestines are called the second brain;
the fatty layer protects our female center – the uterus – from conflicts with children, during pregnancies: I do not want, but “I must” / I want, but “I must not” / I am torn between “I want” and “I do not want”;
people living in constant psycho-emotional stress, anxious and nervous, at the subconscious level direct energy from the abdominal cavity to the navel, more precisely to the umbilical cord. They seek to regain peace in the mother’s stomach and “return” to the intrauterine state through the umbilical cord (navel). Often, such people are prone to the formation of fat on the stomach.
Lush Hips – they may contain the past: anger at parents due to excessive guardianship or lack of parental affection and care in childhood; children’s fears and resentments. Also, the problem with the hips indicates suppressed sexual and creative energy, lack of fulfillment in sex, internal prohibitions on the manifestation of power, creativity and aggression, infantilism, unwillingness to grow up, a sense of shame.
Upper thighs often keeps a deep grudge against the mother (most likely from childhood), the lower one – against the father.
GALIFE considered a zone of meaningless accumulation: disgusted work, unnecessary things, obsolete attitudes and beliefs. The motto of this problem is: “Let it be, let it all come in handy on the farm.”
Problems with TAZOM signal fears in the sexual sphere. Having settled there, all fears can both lead to illness and interfere with healthy orgasmic discharge. According to research, most women, and in different countries, fake an orgasm. And behind the fake anorgasmia is primarily the fear of something or someone.
Full Legs talk about the lack of support in life, stability, about the unconscious feeling “I have no one to lean on”, “I do not stand firmly on my feet.” Such people lack stability, lack confidence in themselves and the world.
Accumulation of fat on Buttocks can talk about clumsiness in communication and egocentrism. Plus the tendency to constantly promise something to yourself and others and not fulfill. Moreover, the massive priest “accumulates” in itself the fear of change. In general, a massive lower body is often seen in people who tend to overprotect their loved ones.
BACK is an interesting mixture of symbols and meanings. On the one hand, it is the place where we put everything that we have no desire to look at, or that no one else should see.
On the other hand, this is our “garbage dump” where we bury our feelings and experiences that caused pain and confusion. In the back, such aspects as love and warmth in relation to another person, which we cannot express, and therefore hide, or, conversely, irritation and indifference that we do not want to admit, are closed.
Widow’s hump at 30? Sorry, but inside you are probably already under 70, and all the pain of resentment has accumulated on your hump, writes Natalya Shcherbinina.