Few men manage to hide infidelity. Attempts to get rid of all the evidence of infidelity lead to the fact that men begin to behave fussy, distant and secretive. All these signs only increase the suspicions of women.
Popular TikTok user Nicole Moore literally explained on her fingers when it is worth suspecting cheating in a man. The woman works as a relationship coach and shares her knowledge of male psychology and personal experience with subscribers. So, what changes in the partner’s behavior does she advise you to pay attention to?
In the era of digital technologies, the “litmus test” of infidelity is a smartphone and a man’s attitude towards it. So, the first sign of infidelity is a new screensaver on the phone: “If a man has changed the lock screen, you should be wary. Let’s say for a long time he had your joint photo on the screen saver, and now there is a beautiful picture. Thus, a partner can hide from his mistress that he is in a relationship.
According to Moore, that’s exactly what her ex-partner did. Subsequently, it turned out that he really cheated on her.
Nicole Moore advised women who noticed a new screensaver on a man’s phone to ask why he changed it. “If your partner starts to make excuses or get nervous, this is additional confirmation of your guesses,” she says.
A man who has nothing to hide will calmly give his partner any digital device for a while
Another sign of infidelity is the unwillingness of a man to show his smartphone. The blogger drew attention to the fact that cheating men hate it when other people touch their gadgets.
She suggests doing an experiment to find out if your man is too secretive: “Go up to your partner and politely ask him for a smartphone: “Honey, I need your phone, because I want to do one thing with it.”
A man who has nothing to hide will calmly give his partner any digital device for a while. If the partner is cheating, he will find an excuse to prevent the woman from seeing the contents of the smartphone.
In addition, men who have mistresses try not to leave their phone in a visible place and always carry it with them, while honest partners can leave gadgets unattended anywhere.
If the partner is faithful, he will apologize for being missing and not reporting his location
The last sign is long breaks in communication. “It’s important for couples in a relationship to communicate throughout the day and let each other know what’s going on. But if a man cheats, at certain intervals he will be unavailable for communication, ”she explained.
If the partner is faithful, he will apologize for being missing and not reporting his location. But if a man cheats, he will defend himself and blame his partner in response.
Indeed, the secrecy of a man may indicate his infidelity, but it is not worth drawing unambiguous conclusions based only on these signs. Indeed, for many couples, for example, it is important to maintain personal boundaries in matters of using gadgets, so a man may not share his phone, even if he does not hide anything.