It’s strange why adults tend to be so condescending about youthful love? Does the ability to feel sincerely depend on age?
Often on social networks I come across similar quotes: “She is 15 and she is dying of unrequited love, and I am 20, but I drink juice and watch cartoons!”
Well, let’s say young guys who flaunt their feelings and scream left and right, how they suffer without their soulmate, are difficult to take seriously. But why is it that most people are of the opinion that individuals who have not known all the complexities of this life are not able to love sincerely, for real? Notice that no one says anything like that about friendship. A real friend can be found at the age of 5, or maybe at 25 or 50. Yes, you can not find your man at all! But if you find it, you will love it, you will love it to an incredible degree! So, you will be ready for anything for this person. But, in fact, true friendship is the same as true love. The only thing is that friends do not arrange solemn ceremonies, to which they call all relatives and friends, and do not go to the registry office to formalize their friendship.
Imagine how stupid such words would sound: “What kind of friendship is there at 15 years old ?!” But nevertheless, you can hear this about love. Therefore, I will tell a story that I myself heard from one person. So, Max and Dasha go to school, they are 14-16 years old. And they love each other. Yes, they love with the most pure and sincere love! So, Dasha’s parents decide, as often happens, for her. And they come to the conclusion that their daughter must certainly move to America, because there is a better education, environment and standard of living! It would seem that everything is fine, but what about Daria’s desire? And no one asks her. “Well, he loves … yes, he will fall in love! He will come to America and find himself another subject for sighing. As you guessed, nothing good came of it. Daria stopped studying at all, began to drink alcohol and by the age of 20 she drank herself in this America. And Max tried not to lose heart, but at some point he broke down and came to drugs.
You can say that it all depends on the person. Yes it is. Maybe a really strong man could do it. But how many of these strong? Not so much … Just imagine how the life of Max and Dasha would have turned out if this parting had not happened. Perhaps everything would be much more radiant …
If I were Dasha, I would easily cope with this problem using current technologies. And I, probably, at the behest of my parents, would have studied in America, and then I would have come back to my beloved or would have tried to arrange for him to move to me.
So I don’t know what true love is. Probably because I haven’t experienced it myself yet. You should not scatter confessions right and left, but why not just believe those who are trying to love? Just believe and not interfere with them?