Emotions give joy, and girls, like young people, love emotions, although each of us chooses our favorite emotions. Girls like to worry and be afraid more, young people like to test themselves “weakly” and train their stamina when faced with danger. It is possible to have fun with emotions, it is normal and fun, it is important to know the line when to stop. This is the moment when you see and feel — emotions and experiences begin to overwhelm the territory of the soul. These are situations when we find ourselves “in emotions”.
Emotions and feelings are similar things, but “being in emotions” and “feeling” are very different things, rather contradicting each other. A person in emotions feels worse than other close people, and one who is used to feeling and empathizing is less likely to fall into emotions. If you express something to each other, it is rather emotions, and if you try to understand the soul of another with your soul, it is “to feel”.
A man often gets emotional when he is jealous, and a girl when she is offended by her boyfriend. To solve the difficult situation that has arisen, both of them need to feel each other, but it is emotions that interfere with this.
Situation. A girl sits in front of me — she came for a consultation. He holds on, but tears sometimes appear in his eyes, an inner trembling is felt … Her young man is in doubt whether he should live with her, and she has already become attached to him and is now worried. She is smart, her head works all the same, analyzes the situation adequately and draws the necessary conclusions — her emotions did not destroy her ability to turn on her head, however, more subtle things still no longer work. Namely: she sits in front of me, but her attention is only enough for herself, she no longer feels me. Her head works, but her feelings, the feeling of the interlocutor, are turned off.
It’s not a question that she doesn’t feel me — the bad thing is that in this state she no longer feels her young man either. And to live with him, realizing that he needs only his head, is difficult. The head cannot feel the elusive details of his states and moods; enters his life…
Emotions — vyu.e.yut empathy. The person who understands the other best is the person whose soul is calm, whose inner soul resembles the expanse of a transparent lake, in which such a different sky is reflected. Any strong feelings interfere with the understanding of another, and if you love someone, you need to be able to extinguish unnecessary emotions.
How, what can improve the situation? — Calm presence, auto-training, learn to get rid of, then wean yourself from centropupism and teach yourself to live in the soul of another, train fine-tuning and empathy … Right, but is there enough time? To have enough, let’s do it sooner!