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The best conflict is the one you don’t get into. No need to go on vacation to countries where hostilities are unfolding. Do not go in your city to those institutions where conflicts arise. Do not get involved with conflicting people, if possible, do not keep in touch with those people around whom there are only troubles.
How do we run into conflict, or about the head and feelings
It would seem that everything is so simple. Only…
Only in order to do all this, you need to think about the consequences and think in general, despite the fact that many people do not turn on their heads for days. Only for many people the conflict is not a nuisance, but entertainment, and what happens next is not important. Only conflict people are just the most interesting, and sometimes we also fall in love with them. Total: if we live with feelings, and not with our heads, then all these warnings fly past us. Wanted and interesting — stronger than necessary and right. See →
What if he started first?
Even fairly sane people, when conflict messages suddenly fly in their address, begin to deploy retaliatory hostilities. If you have the time and desire to make war, then it’s good for you, “whatever the child amuses …”, but if you have other plans, then it’s easiest to ignore what is happening. «The dog barks — the caravan moves on.» See →
What if it’s mom?
Mom needs to be controlled. And sometimes you can even re-educate a mother …