Two random decent people, if desired, can create a married couple and relationships.
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The heroes of the following story met at my club five years ago. Once in a class, I develop one of my favorite theses that any two people can create a family, if only they have a desire, and they do not have pronounced physical and moral defects. Love (or rather, falling in love) can both help and hinder them, and in principle it is not necessary. (see →) We discuss, argue, my arguments sound convincing.
And suddenly… Zhenya K. takes the keys out of his pocket, raises them for everyone to see and announces: “I agree with N.I., but I would like to check it out. Girls! These are the keys to my apartment. Who wants to be my wife? Any!”
There was a tense silence in response. I was also a little taken aback: conversations are conversations, and here a person offers the keys to the apartment … But it’s also interesting for me, I ask: “Girls, are there any who want it?”
And suddenly … Olya S. raises her hand and says: «I agree.»
We then discussed for a long time — everyone agreed that until that moment there were no “special” relations between them: ordinary, good, like with everyone else.
There is nothing to do: I cheerfully announce that a new family has been born in our club. Everyone congratulates Olya and Zhenya. Here they also discussed how they should live now, or rather learn how to live as a family. The situation was facilitated by the fact that Zhenya had a one-room apartment.
But an important condition: for various reasons, we agreed on a ban on sex for the duration of the experiment. Olya and Zhenya left classes together, came to the next lesson together … We do not ask them, because they are calm and smiling. And a month later they came up to me and said that they had already submitted an application. As Olga explained: “You know, we really liked family life. We don’t have any conflicts: we played so many of them in the Club that we don’t want to do it at home. True, we violated one condition: after two weeks, Zhenya stopped going to the kitchen for the night. I have a feeling that we just opened our soul valves, and all the love that we carried in ourselves just splashed out on each other. We love each other so much!”
Now they have a daughter. They live well.
A family can be created with any good person
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