He wants to convey to her that he did not cheat — but they will not agree that way. Each of them in their monologue, they shout at each other, but do not talk …
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Discussing difficult issues is not easy. When people get carried away, they begin to speak categorically, dump a lot of negativity on their partner and just immediately talk about a lot, raising several topics at once. How to discuss this? Only if you answer the same.
“I get tired, and you don’t help me and behave as if all your whims should be fulfilled immediately!” — what is the answer to this? Now listen to another conversation: «I’m getting tired and would like to discuss with you if I can count on your help?» — «Oh sure!». If the conversation is built in the form of a dialogue, it is easier to negotiate.
You do not like the stubborn categoricalness of your interlocutors? Do you prefer respectful dialogue in a conversation? Do you find the game of «Who Overbuts Whom» silly and would you like to lead the discussion in a more thoughtful and collaborative manner? So you will enjoy the technique, the exercise and the game “What do you think?”. It’s simple: you start speaking briefly and, having expressed your thought briefly, ask your interlocutor: «And what do you think? If you start behaving this way, it is easy for you to negotiate with your loved ones so that they answer you the same.
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