PSYchology

Such an agreement can be one of the reasonable forms of relationship between parents and children. Ensures both the protection of the interests of children and the opportunity for parents to achieve their goals of education.

For example

​​​​​​​This agreement is signed between our beloved Olya and Serezha, hereinafter referred to as Children, and us, caring and loving mother Katya, and attentive and caring father Andrei, hereinafter referred to as Parents, with the following purpose:

— Creating a personal budget for Children and accumulating money for a beautiful holiday with all the ensuing joys and entertainment, because we want our children to understand how to treat money correctly, so that there is always a lot of it and enough for everything, which is extraordinary for good work colorful holiday!

Undoubtedly correct provisions of the current contract:

  • Children happily receive money for personal expenses in the amount of 1000 USD every month.
  • The money is cheerfully given out by the Parents at the end of the month based on the results of the fulfillment of the terms of the contract.
  • That part of the money that will be set aside for a trip to the sea or for spending holidays in other good places is multiplied by five and is issued only before the trip.
  • From the personal money set aside for the vacation of our beloved Children, a ticket is bought, all the things necessary for the vacation, and the remaining amount can be used for personal purposes during the vacation or during the holidays (as agreed by the parties).

1. Obligations of the parties.

Children take seriously the obligation to fulfill the school plan, the plan for helping their parents with the housework, the plan for maintaining order in personal belongings, the plan for health.

Parents are no less serious about the obligation to pay the specified amount on time, provided that all specified plans are met by at least 80%.

Payments are clearly made by Caring Dad — Andrey, the main holder of the family budget.

Tracking the implementation of plans is loudly carried out by Caring Mom — Katya, the main controller of family plans.

2. The term of the contract.

The term of the contract is until the end of the current year. At the request of the parties, the contract can be quickly extended for any period.

3. The procedure for considering disputes.

All disputes are considered by the interested parties in a warm and friendly atmosphere. The decision is made within ten minutes.

To resolve disputes, a justice of the peace (Aunt Zhenya), the most fair judge in the world, whose services are paid by the party who applied to him, can be involved.

4. Changing the terms of the contract.

The terms of the contract cannot be changed just like that.

The parties are obliged to sincerely drink tea, respectfully discuss the new conditions and joyfully amend the existing contract.

Annex 1. School plan.

Deadline: Week Number of fives: At least three. Number of fours: Any. Number of triplets: No more than three. Number of twos: One two subtracts one five.

To sit down for lessons immediately after lunch.

Annex 2. Housekeeping Plan

Deadline: Week. Help in the kitchen: 1. Take out the trash twice. 2. Wash the dishes twice. 3. Help with cooking mom. 4. Wash floors once.

Help in the room: 1. Vacuum once. 2. Wash floors twice.

Help with cleaning on Saturdays: Mom decides.

Bonus/Penalty: Be sure to clean up after yourself without being reminded. Fine — 10 USD. One reminder allowed. If the whole week the Children were smart, a bonus is due. And which one — the parents decide

Annex 3. Plan of order in personal belongings

All things must be in perfect order.

Wardrobe — clean things are folded, dirty — in the wash.

Table — on the table and in the table until 20.00 full order has been put in place.

Things in the room are stacked on a chair, hung on hangers.

The bed must be made every morning.

On Olya’s bed live:

Serezha lives on the sofa:

Annex 4. Health plan

Charging — Saturday and Sunday for 15 minutes. You can replace running or roller skating.

Five-minute peppy — we repeat with mom.

There are peas (homeopathic) — in the morning before all things and in the evening before reading or 15 minutes before brushing your teeth.

Computer games — no longer than half an hour a day.

TV — no more than one movie per weekend.

We go to bed before 22.30 every day.

All exceptions — in agreement with both parents. These exceptions should bring joy to all participants and benefit our health.

Annex 5 Communication plan.

Each word “bastard, fool, idiot” is a fine of 10 USD.

Each squeaky or aching intonation — 10 squats.

Each charge is a fine of 10 USD.

Signatures of the parties

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