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La fear of abandonment, also called “abandonite”, is a syndrome which is characterized by three behaviors: a isolatedyou do not significant aggressiveness, the suractivité.
Multiple causes
Fear of abandonment can result from different situations experienced in childhood : the loss of a loved one (parent, grandparent, brother or sister …), overprotective parents, or even fused parents putting their couple before everything else, a bad pregnancy …
Growing up, a child who is afraid of being abandoned feels bad about himself and does not manage to flourish in society.
Teach him to separate
We can act against the fear of abandonment from childhood. How? ‘Or’ What ? First of all, in avoiding being an overprotective mother or father with her child, even if it is not always easy. It must be let experiment alone, while being there to watch in case …
While it is important to stimulate your child to awaken him, it is also essential to let him be bored at times, so that he goes on his own discovery, that he develops his creativity without the help of anyone.