You met, talked pleasantly, you liked the girl, and you seem to have managed to interest her. You exchanged contacts, everything seems to be fine, but … how to call her so that the meeting does not fall apart?
Let me give you some simple tips.
Start the conversation confidently and positively, with an intonation: you are happy with her and you know that she will be happy with you. If her intonation is not joyful, take it lightly, this still does not say anything: girls have different moods.
During the first call, just make an appointment. When you are well acquainted, you can chat on the phone for a long time, but now unnecessary questions and discussions of any global topics are inappropriate. Don’t be smart, keep the conversation simple:
— Katya, hello!
— Hey!
— This is Grisha from the Central Department Store, remember me? We talked with you there yesterday.
— Yes, I remember, Grisha, hello!
– How are you feeling?
— I’m fine, how are you?
— That’s great too. Look, I’m planning to go for a walk in the park at 9 today — can you keep me company…!?
— Yes, okay, I’ll come!
— See you!
When you call on the phone, never tell her you’re in a bad mood. Nobody needs your bad mood — either hide it away and make the girl happy, or, if you can’t, dial her phone at another time. If you called and a girl tells you about your bad mood, you don’t need to respond with questions and consolations. React easily and briefly: “Yes, this happens to me too,” then offer to meet: “I will be glad to see you. See you?»
When you propose to meet, do not ask when and where it is convenient for her, offer her your specific options — where and when. Girls like guys who have clear plans, do not unnecessarily burden the girl with the need to think and decide. If your offer does not suit her, you can ask when she can, but do not ask about her plans — girls often have serious difficulties with this. If a girl wants to meet with you, she herself will offer you another time, and if she doesn’t offer it, do it yourself or agree to call again later.
If a girl didn’t take the TUU the first time, don’t call several times, don’t show yourself to be a bore. I didn’t take the tue — she will call back herself when she sees the missed call and finds the right time for this.
Never propose a meeting by text message. In general, forget about SMS at this stage of dating: for a girl, this is an indicator of either your cowardice (not okay, your self-doubt), or disrespect for the girl. However, if you have already called twice, but she does not call back, you can send an SMS “Subscriber is temporarily unavailable?”. If there is no answer, relax: you are not interested in the girl enough. It happens, it’s okay, everything is ahead. Moreover, as you probably already know, girls sometimes give their phone number just so that the guy gets rid of her as soon as possible.
And once again: in fact, girls are very pleased when guys call them. Please the girl. Call her!