When the Dalai Lama dies and it becomes clear that he needs a replacement, the monks go through the villages and villages, looking for a new Dalai Lama. How do they do it? Just. Passing village after village, they look at the faces of six-seven-year-old boys and, sooner or later, they find a new Dalai Lama.
Note that the problem “But the parents will not give up their son” usually does not arise. Parents themselves see who was born to them.
Yes, the boy will go through some more trials and more studies, but the main thing is done: he was found. In my opinion, such a decision is extremely wise: by the age of five or seven, everything is already written on everyone’s face, their values and their path are already imprinted in their eyes, and you just need eyesight to see it all.
The expression of the face, eyes and lips is difficult to describe, but for an attentive person, this information is exceptionally deep and accurate. Carefully observe the facial expression characteristic of a person: if the eyes are the mirror of the soul, then the facial expression is a record of his entire fate.
It’s not difficult for me from a photograph of a person’s face, if his eyes are clearly visible in the photo, to tell almost everything about him that you are interested in learning about him. His character is easy or difficult, whether he trusts people, how many friends he has and what kind of friends he has, whether he is a person who is carried away or rather coldly reasonable, how decent or prone to set-ups he is. For an attentive person with experience already from a photograph of a girl, I repeat, it is easy to read what kind of wife, mother and mistress she will be, how stubborn she is and whether she knows how to organize herself. Also, at trainings for managers, participants show me photos of their employees on their iPhones, then at first I tell them what they already know about these employees, and then what is important for them to know. Looking at the photo, I tell the perspectives of these employees as leaders, their leadership style, the ability to lead a large team, their behavior in conflicts, whether they will steal and whether they are at risk of future alcoholism. If only people knew how much their face could tell about them!
Listen to the person’s voice. Best of all, if you can not hear the content, you can listen to the voice just like music or the voice of a foreigner, then you will hear his character. The voice of an experienced leader differs from the voice of a novice employee, in the timbre of the voice and intonations it is easy to hear good breeding or its absence, one timbre can tell whether this person knows how to love and whether he is capable of love at all. I am convinced that the absence of certain timbres in the voice makes a person unable to love. Scary? But by connecting the necessary voice resonators, having mastered the necessary timbres and having learned the necessary intonations, a person acquires the ability to love. Surprisingly, unbelievably, but at least for me it is a fact, and that is why working with the voice, with the face, with the body is a must for all my students at the University of Practical Psychology.
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