This idea is outdated, say our experts, sexologists Alain Eril and Mireille Bonyerbal, debunking another stereotype about sexuality.
Alain Eril, psychoanalyst, sexologist:
Seriously, this idea is a hundred years outdated! This was true in the XNUMXth century, when married women were completely sexually undeveloped, and their husbands, not considering themselves entitled to have full-fledged relationships with their wives, went to a brothel for pleasure. However, today, when women have the opportunity to choose and change partners, unsatisfactory sexual relationships bother them just as quickly as men.
On the other hand, young lovers, between whom sexual harmony has arisen, believe in the constancy of physical attraction – judging by the fact that many of them are going to be faithful to each other. This means that a man in such a pair believes that he will be satisfied with the only woman who will be his life partner.
Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist:
Much in this matter depends on the nature of the relationship. If for a man from the very beginning there was nothing in them but sex, then indeed, having “consumed” the object, he can very quickly feel bored.
If a man is emotionally invested in a relationship, then he will be emotionally fed up no faster than a woman.
If a man is emotionally invested in a relationship, then he will be emotionally fed up no faster than a woman.
When there are genuine feelings between two people, both a man and a woman are interested in a partner, seek to solve the riddle that he represents, and at the same time love his body. Then making love becomes one of the ways of communication, enrichment of relationships, a way to feel alive, and there is no reason for the extinction of curiosity in this case.