The stories of Anton Klenov are amazing in their beauty, kindness and love flowing in them. It’s in sound and form. But in fact, they present a child-manipulator and loving parents who bring him up as a super-manipulator in the flow of love according to the maternal model. More precisely, they have long since surrendered their positions and are being trained by him.
Parents are smart, talented and strong people, but due to their ideological attitudes, they know that the child should only be loved (that is, only comfort and joy should be provided to him) and that he should not be upset. In this situation, the child-manipulator seizes power instantly and then begins to educate (train) parents already according to his own project …
The stories are admirable, but pay attention — in this amazing family, the power belongs to the child. Most likely, with such a wise dad and a kind child, the child will not abuse his power, and everything will be fine in the end in this wonderful family (I’m just sure of it), but as a principle of organizing a family, this seems to be a fundamentally wrong course.
So, the warmest stories in the world about the most loving parents in the world, going the wrong way:
- Offended child — Anton Klenov
Dad from scratch successfully loads himself with guilt and teaches the child how to command parents. The child is active and talented, learns quickly.
- Crafty child — Anton Klenov
The child does not want to stay in kindergarten, he likes it better with his dad. He becomes so cute that dad quickly realizes how wrong he is if he thinks about something else besides the desires of the child. After all, the child wants it! A short fight — and a statement: the child won.
- What is IMPOSSIBLE for a child — Anton Klenov
A child in the garden bites — that is, not everyone, but the weakest. The teacher asked to influence, and now dad asks. Asks the child for a favor and strictly says “No!” The child understands that it is impossible — it’s just a game when dad says strict words, and continues to do what he wants with even greater enthusiasm. And dad — mimics. Dad sees it and in full tenderness.
- Sleeping child — Anton Klenov
Please note that at the request of the child, the father put him in the front seat of the car, violating road safety rules and risking the life of the same child: “All attempts to put him in the child seat are abandoned: we, as always, came to a compromise, which lies in the fact that I strictly comply with all his requirements, for example, I don’t even stutter about the child seat, and he, for this, screams, but not very loudly, just to train his voice … »
- The Forgiving Child — Anton Klenov
The baby is fifteen months old and is extremely effective in punishing—or forgiving—every other member of his family. Energetic manipulator, whose love is sought by parents. And they buy it — quite expensive gifts.
- Personal example — Anton Klenov
The main thing is that everything has been clear to dad for a long time: “I knew that he had “built” everyone in the house for a long time, grandfathers and grandmothers walked along the plinth for a long time, greeted his teddy bears and climbed out of their skin to please the young trainer in every possible way … Mom in matters of order, I usually didn’t contact him, because it’s easier to remove it myself. It remains to tame dad … ” Also note that dad in all the previous stories is only and exclusively in the role of mom. Only here, in the story «Personal Example», dad tried to play the role of dad, but turned out to be weak — the child outplayed him. And a child at the age of one and a half years is a talented, already fully formed manipulator, able to substitute and knock adults down with their foreheads.