Communication with overseas princes has long become part of our reality. They are in dating apps, we meet them on the streets of foreign cities. It is interesting to know what Russian men think about it. Does this mutual sympathy hurt their national feelings? And if so, why?
An ancient and archaic rule says that the women of the tribe are the property of the tribe. Since ancient times, women have been the prey of the victors of wars, sexual violence against a woman of the enemy is almost valor. Moreover, the main thing here is to humiliate the enemy, and not sex itself, he is in second place, and a woman is only a means for humiliation.
And in general, a woman is a means in general: for the birth of heirs, sexual satisfaction, etc. And this primitive archaism is expressed in various forms of control over women, including their bodies. You can have sex with these, but you can’t have sex with these, they are of a foreign faith or nationality …
And here some women declare by their actions that their sexual experiences do not fit into the «patriotic-tribal» framework. And that they themselves dispose of their bodies, which are no longer the property of the tribe. Here, archaic ideas rear up, shedding a faint touch of modernity. If you reject me in favor of a «tribesman» — this is still tolerable, but if in favor of a stranger …
It’s easier to manage a woman-property: you don’t need to do anything with yourself, you just need to be vigilant
For example, ancient taboos run the show in my psyche, supplemented by a sense of my own inadequacy, which only encourages me to rely on these taboos. Then the only desire associated with the appearance of alien rivals is control of one’s property: to protect it more strictly and drive away thieves. The tribe will decide who you can and cannot be with. Yes, this is a form of competition between men, and the woman here is just prey: “And now, soul-maiden, I want to marry you.”
If a woman in the mind of a man is an independent person who is able to choose and, moreover, loves sex, the man is left with another option for competition, even more ancient than this tribal morality. This is a competition that goes back to primitive biology. It sounds simple: be better for a woman to reach out to you with all her essence.
Nationality ceases to be important, only gender and your vitality, your thirst for life and interest in it are important. And it is not at all necessary to be a burning macho Latin American or a handsome Nordic Scandinavian. What is important is the opportunity to want a woman, to inform her about it, and at the same time hear the response signals. That is, the competition is not for a woman as prey, but for the choice of the woman herself.
I am not inclined to share the idea that there is something wrong with Russian men. It’s a matter of values and perceptions of women. It is easier to manage a woman-property: you don’t need to do anything with yourself, you just need to be vigilant. With a woman-personality it is more difficult — she chooses, and there is no way to force … Unless by force, but is this what we want?