These actions seem touching and seem to promise a long and happy life together, but not the best intentions often hide behind them. If you notice one of the features of the chosen one, think about whether it is worth continuing the relationship.
1. He came up with an affectionate nickname for you too quickly.
If on a second date a man calls you “baby” or “kitten” – this is a sign that he is in a hurry to develop a relationship. Affectionate nicknames can be sweet, but come up over time as an inside joke in an established couple with a close relationship.
2. He stopped talking to his friends in order to be with you more often.
It may be charming, but it will not end well. By investing time and effort in relationships, he will demand the same. Friendship is necessary to maintain an emotionally healthy state, obsessing over a single person is a dubious choice.
3. He constantly writes, knowing that you are busy.
Attention is pleasant for everyone, but if you said that you were working or want to chat with a girlfriend, and he continues to write and is offended that you do not answer, this is a violation of personal boundaries and disrespect for your needs.
4. He filled social networks with your photos.
At first, this may seem flattering and pleasant, but if you have been together recently, do you really want to take up so much space in his life? What does it say about a partner if his social networks are dedicated only to your couple, and hobbies, friends and work have disappeared from there?
5. He wants to get to know your parents as soon as possible.
If you’ve just started dating, an insistence on getting to know your family could be a sign that the man is getting into the relationship too quickly and too deeply, even though it hasn’t developed to the right stage yet. This closeness also takes time. Ask him what caused this desire, suggest that you first focus on getting to know each other, and then get to know your parents.
6. He almost immediately offered to move in.
You’ve been together for a couple of months, and he has already found an apartment for you? Common life is a serious step. If your partner insists on moving before you get to know you properly, you should slow down.
7. He invited you on a trip. Traveling for the first time with a partner is often a difficult experience, and you shouldn’t agree if you’ve been on a couple of dates. Spending time with someone you don’t know well isn’t the safest idea.