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At first glance, introverts seem withdrawn and unsociable. This is a deceptive impression. Poetess Natalia Vela believes that they make the most passionate and devoted lovers.
In a world with a fast pace of life and a high degree of social activity, introverts look something unnatural. We misunderstand and underestimate them. It seems to us that an introvert is a reserved and shy person. This is not true.
An introvert really doesn’t like wasting energy on superficial conversations and fleeting connections. This does not mean that he has nothing to say. On the contrary, he can tell a lot, but prefers to talk only about what is important.
You can’t call it boring. If he lets you into the soul, you will find yourself in a world that you did not suspect. If he falls in love, the experience will be unforgettable. These people:
1. Know yourself well
They live a rich inner life. They spend a lot of time in the labyrinths of the inner world and get to know themselves deeply. Introspection is a close friend of the introvert.
Such people get to know themselves and find out what their essence is, analyze why they became the way they are. Thanks to all this, they understand others well. When it comes time to get to know your soulmate, they spare no effort, trying to get to know you and understand you as deeply as possible.
2. Strive for intimacy
Introverts want you to show your true self without shame or embarrassment. They do not accept empty talk and superficial relationships. They want to know what calms you down, what prevents you from falling asleep, where the scar on your knee comes from. What do you hope for, what do you dream about, what are you afraid of, and where did you get these desires, hopes and fears.
3. Constantly watching
They often behave quietly, it’s true. But when this happens, they observe your actions, mark every word, remember in detail every conversation and moment spent with you.
4. They hear and understand you
When this person gets to know your true self, he does so with attention and understanding. They have developed intuition. They pick up on your emotions and adjust to them without judgment.
5. Attached to a partner
They are selective in relationships, wisely choose loved ones. If an introvert has decided to be with you, he has thought and weighed this decision. This means that next to you he is calm and comfortable. He feels that he can trust you and be himself. You are a special and unique person. He will take care of you and never stop appreciating you.
6. Do not scatter words
Such people are laconic with those whom they do not know well, they cannot stand small talk. But if they feel comfortable with you, they open up completely. If they want to say something, then it is important.
When an introvert opens up to you, it’s a sign of trust and affection. These people do not bare their souls in front of the first comer. When you open up in return, they appreciate the move. If he loves, he loves with all his heart.
Introverts respect your life outside of relationships and value your independence. They know that your world is not limited to them. They also want you to be yourself. They will not force you to choose between love and friendship, family, goals, hobbies and career.
7. Respect personal space
They need to spend time alone with themselves to relax, gain strength and clear their heads. When you need to do the same, they will understand your desires and respect them. They won’t take your need for solitude as an insult.
Introverts have a developed imagination, among them there are many creative people. They make thinkers, writers and artists. Unexplored worlds live inside, oceans rage in their hearts. They are one of the most passionate, understanding and caring lovers.