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What is the ideal woman, the dream of every man? A wonderful hostess, a passionate lover or a caring mother of his children? Or maybe one that combines all these qualities? Every woman dreams of unraveling this secret in order to become truly irresistible.
The 7 basic male needs will help you understand what qualities a man looks for and appreciates in a woman. Learn to combine them in yourself, and you can become the only and beloved by your man for life.
1. Female partner
This woman has such an indispensable skill for a happy relationship as generous listening. She knows how to listen like no one else. Everything that her companion wants to tell about is interesting and important to her — from problematic and difficult moments in his work to incredible ideas with which he is full. At the same time, it is not at all necessary for her to thoroughly understand all the intricacies of the business or other activities in which he is engaged. It is important to be able to give a man the feeling that she is on his side, his main ally and support in those moments when it is really needed.
2. Woman muse
You have probably heard the famous proverb “behind every great man is a great woman”. History knows many such examples: Salvador Dali’s Gala, Napoleon’s Josephine, the wife of great writers, scientists, politicians … So what is she — a woman muse? What is her strength? First of all, in the ability to believe in your companion, inspire him and admire him correctly.
Remember what words you usually express admiration for your loved one? Most likely, template phrases like “you are my best”, “the best”, “the most wonderful” will come to mind. Who do they remind you of? Is it true, a mother who praises her child for a good deed? Receiving such praise, a man also runs the risk of «falling into childhood», turning into a child. True admiration, which can give a man strength and inspire him to new achievements, is not praise for an act. It’s admiration for something he hasn’t done yet.
Admire the qualities that you would like to see in your man, those things that he is just about to do. Do it sincerely, believe in him and inspire with your faith. Only in this case, he will believe your words and gain the energy to develop and achieve everything that you see in him.
3. Woman-fairy of comfort
This woman creates a space for a man where he is always expected and loved, where he feels calm, where he is surrounded by home comfort. Even such simple components of everyday life as ironed US dollars, delicious food, surrounding cleanliness and order give a man an enormous amount of energy. Such a woman turns the house into a source of strength, a place where a man wants to return, where he recovers and rests, and where he leaves inspired for new exploits. This woman also knows how to demonstrate her feelings to a man in a special way, meets him with joy, surrounds him with care and warmth, fills the space with love. Next to such a woman, a man is always full of strength and energy.
4. Woman sex
This is a woman who has learned to appreciate and love not only a man, but also herself. Next to her, in the space of a man, no third-party temptations appear. She knows how to give her companion exactly those sensations that are important to him. And he does this not only in intimate relationships, but also in all other areas of life.
There is a common stereotype that a man is driven to cheat only by the desire for sex. It turns out that not always. Often, in a mistress, a man is looking for those feelings that he does not receive from his wife. A life that has piled up, some kind of conflict, lack of attention, underestimation, and a thousand other reasons not related to physiology can lead to treason.
To prevent all this from happening, it is important for a woman to learn how to treat herself correctly, turn off her inner “mommy” and start provoking her man to grow and develop. Men do not cheat on women who can do this, because height is one of the most important male needs.
5. A woman of devotion
This is a special gift — to convey the feeling «I belong to one man, I am behind him, I am only his woman.» Such a woman knows how to attract attention, but at the same time remain inaccessible. Knows how to be noticeable to everyone, but keeps loyalty and devotion to his loved one.
A truly happy woman can only be when, firstly, she loves and appreciates herself, and secondly, she is able to spiritually belong to one man. In a relationship, such a woman happily serves her companion and, of course, receives mutual worship and support from him.
6. Woman friend
It is important to distinguish this need from a «female partner». A female friend accepts a man for who he really is. With her, he can relax and open up, throw off the mask of the strong and just be himself. Sad statistics confirm that mortality from cardiovascular diseases among men is higher than among women. Nature made the males strong to fight and win. But if the struggle is constant — both at work and at home — they simply cannot withstand the stress. Therefore, it is important for a woman not only to provoke a man to growth and development, but also to give him the opportunity to relax and rest next to her. Not in order to stop and degrade, but in order to simply gain new strength.
7. Business card woman
This is a woman that a man is proud of. He is proud of her attractive appearance, the fact that other men pay attention to her, and she belongs only to him. This is the ability to be delightful for your man, to always maintain his interest. The art of awakening in him the true male nature — the nature of a hunter, conqueror, winner. The talent to remain attractive in any situation — both on the first date and after a dozen years of marriage, both at home and at social events.
In long-term relationships, women often complain about the cooling of feelings in their companions. And the thing is that their men simply had no one to win. After all, women themselves begin to perceive this union as something stable and unchanging, and often cease to monitor their appearance, keep fit and look their best.
There is a simple secret to avoid this. Throw away your old jeans or washed-out bathrobe and start changing colors in your clothes even at home. And every time a man will perceive you as new, not as usual, unpredictable, and therefore attractive and desirable.
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