50 shades of gray: 20 tips to spice up your sex life

We learn to kiss again

Languorously, intensely, we embrace each other with the passion of the early days, the very one that we have put aside since everyday life, children, work, in short, routine, have taken over. And we discover that this kiss puts our two bodies in turmoil.

We talk about sex

It sounds silly but the more we talk about it, the more we free ourselves from our taboos and our unconscious fears. You want to try new things. He would like you to disguise yourself as a maid … When it comes to sex, you have to tell each other everything.

We go on a romantic weekend

It’s decided. You have three months to book a weekend just for yourself, avoiding destinations where you would be too tempted to play tourists. A good Relais & château will be perfect to awaken your desire. Ready for 48 hours of fun?

On there now

Forget the shapeless pajamas or even the nightie, from now on you will sleep in the simplest device. Because two bodies stuck under the duvet to warm up, it inevitably gives ideas …

We wear ole ole lingerie

And we take the opportunity to get rid of the discolored and faded underwear that we have been dragging ourselves around for years. Stockings, corsets, push-ups… these are the accessories that will put your darling’s libido in a frenzy.

We say yes to sex toys

Vibrator, dildo, naughty accessories… what if you went for a walk in the local sex shop? Neophyte or expert, there is something for everyone. Dare!

And in handcuffs …

The “Fifty Shades of Gray” trilogy opened the doors of sadomasochism to a totally new audience. So, why not give bondage a try? This practice, which involves tying up your partner during sex, is very effective in increasing desire. Arm yourself with handcuffs and ties and set off to discover new pleasures.

We allow ourselves a “quick bite” from time to time

Break the sexual routine by daring from time to time a little “quickie”, in other words, a little quick somersault and especially improvised. What happiness!

We massage to raise the temperature

Discover the body of your lover thanks to massages. Some oils are known to be aphrodisiacs, did you know that? These sensual caresses on the erogenous zones will take you to seventh heaven.

We create the lack

Tired of the routine, plan dinners in front of the TV, escape for a few days without your companion. Your reunion will only be hotter.

We hold a sex schedule

To have a fulfilling sex life, it is necessary to have regular intercourse. And for that, nothing better than to keep a schedule and / or to set times when we can meet for cuddling sessions.

On ose le strip-tease

Undressing in front of your partner is a good way to increase sexual tension. As long as you don’t take yourself seriously.

We test film X

Nearly one in two French people watch porn as a couple. This practice is no longer taboo at all. So why not give it a try? 

Or the erotic novel

Women devoured “Fifty Shades of Gray”. Erotic literature is a powerful aphrodisiac, it allows us to nurture our wildest fantasies. And to carry them out. Direction Les éditions Musardine.

We fall asleep together

It is often the same scenario. Madame goes to bed while Monsieur continues to watch TV or surf the net. Which does not favor naughty reconciliations. So two evenings a week, we go to bed at the same time. Including.

We send each other (sex) tos

Anything that can stimulate the erotic imagination is good to take. So we don’t hesitate to send each other naughty texts during the day, always taking care not to get the wrong recipient.

And selfies

Your cleavage is gorgeous today, but your man won’t be able to enjoy it because he left before you this morning. At the office, quickly go to the bathroom to immortalize your generous assets and send him the photo.

We are filming

If porn isn’t your thing, how about discreetly filming your antics and replaying those hot scenes to whet your appetite?

We take care of the foreplay

We sometimes tend to miss it. The preliminaries are however an essential stage to raise the desire and then facilitate the sexual act. It’s up to you to find the caress that gives you the most effect.

We test new positions

To spice up your sexuality, do not hesitate to experiment with new positions under the duvet. By going to draw some ideas in the Kamasutra, you will discover new sensations.

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