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5 reasons why you will be refused plastic surgery
Sometimes your desire and money are not enough to change your appearance.
Every year, aesthetic plastic surgery is only gaining momentum. With the development of social networks, many have become addicted to improve themselves more and more. Almost every girl wants to change something in her appearance, but there are several reasons why surgeons may refuse plastic surgery. What exactly can affect the refusal, the expert told us today.
Plastic surgeon, candidate of medical sciences, full member of the Russian Society of Plastic, Reconstructive and Aesthetic Surgeons.
– There are several types of refusals to operate for patients: for medical reasons and psychological. If everything is more or less clear with medical indications, then the psychological reasons should be considered in more detail.
The adage “the client is always right” is absolutely inappropriate for aesthetic surgery. The surgeon runs the show here. Qualified specialists are not ready at the first whim to fulfill all the wishes of the patient. Because some of the patients’ wishes are sometimes not only strange, but also unsafe.
“Fabulous transformation”
Some patients are rather biased about their appearance. They are constantly trying to find flaws and do not notice the merits at all. This disease is called body dysmorphic disorder. Usually, a person suffering from this psychological disorder looks for non-existent defects in himself. Such people are used to paying attention to the appearance of other people and constantly comparing themselves to them. And every time not in their favor. These people can bring themselves to depression, fixating on any deficiency.
A person suffering from body dysmorphic disorder is constantly afraid of not conforming to any invented ideal. Typically, people with this disorder avoid mirrors, do not like to be photographed and devote too much time to their “disadvantage”. Over time, they can abandon all social contacts so that the people around them do not see their “defect”. Such a person is unlikely to be helped by a plastic surgeon. Because it is impossible to achieve the absolute ideal in our world even with the help of plastic surgery.
Fear of old age
It often happens that a patient requires plastic surgery that does not match his biological age. Usually the surgeon will explain why you shouldn’t do this. For example, girls in their twenties dream of having a facelift, which is recommended for older women. Age-related procedures and operations can only harm young skin. If the patient continues to insist, in most cases she will be rejected.
Wanting to fix something that doesn’t need fixing is a good reason to refuse a patient.
There are patients who cannot stop in time. For example, at first they come for rhinoplasty, and then they dream of “improving” everything. Usually, surgeons immediately see such patients and prefer to refuse plastic surgery.
Mythical hero
Recently, at the consultation, you can often meet a patient with strange requests. Such people usually strain plastic surgeons a little. Because, in general, the requests of such patients cannot be called adequate. How do you feel about the fact that instead of normal ears you will have elf ears? Or horns like Maleficent’s? And non-standard patients want exactly that. Experienced professionals understand that this is the desire to stand out from the crowd. Such a disorder should not be treated by a surgeon, but by a psychologist. Therefore, plastic surgeons with a light conscience refuse such patients.
No aggression!
Have you met people who are very fond of scandals? Sometimes they come to consult with plastic surgeons. Many specialists are in a hurry to refuse when they see an aggressive patient. After all, it is quite predictable how the same person will behave if he does not like something in the final result. Therefore, in order to protect their nerves, surgeons are forced to immediately refuse aggressive people. Obvious psychological deviations are the cause of almost one hundred percent rejection.
“I want like a star”
Very often plastic surgeons are approached with very strange requests. For example, some girls come with a request to “make a face” like a Barbie. Hundreds of times in their practice surgeons hear: “I want a nose like Rachel from Friends. At one time there was a general fashion for “ass like Kim”. Such requests can be the first signal to refuse. In this case, the help of a psychotherapist is highly desirable. After all, in this way it is very easy to lose your individuality. Can you imagine if millions of Angeline Jolie walked the earth?
Before going to a plastic surgeon, you should think about whether you really need the upcoming surgery. If in several clinics you were refused precisely for psychological reasons, then most likely it is not a matter of the surgeon. After all, the main task of a qualified specialist is to make people more beautiful and more confident, and not to disfigure patients. Remember that the more invisible your plastic is for the people around you, the better. Indeed, in pursuit of a mythical ideal, you can easily lose your natural beauty.