With the consent of the author, we publish a letter that came to the editor: “Dear Lucy Mikaelyan, I have read your response to Nika’s letter
and that’s what I thought. You advise them to unite … But how? Nika, in my opinion, tried to do it from the very beginning. And her husband does not want to admit that the problem exists at all. It follows from the letter that the husband has sex in one form or another, but Nika does not. It turns out that he has no problem, but she does. And what should be done? How can she make him (persuade, lead to a thought) to unite? For some reason it seems to me that many couples now have it. Probably, men are satisfied that their wives take care of them, create coziness and comfort for them. And they create a variety for themselves in sex, it is the external variety, like a candy wrapper for a candy: the filling may be the same, but let the candy wrappers be different. In any case, such an impression is created, because it is not a problem for one woman to be different, but they just want different women … Sincerely, Lyudmila. “