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- 1. He tends to blame others
- 2. Not ready to take responsibility for your mistakes
- 3. Constantly looking for excuses
- 4. Easily rejects people
- 5. Doesn’t want to change
- 6. Not ready to communicate
- 7. He moves away from his partner
- 8. Unhappy
- 9. Egocentric
- 10.Inflexible
- 11. Worried about what they think of him
- 12. Possibly suffers from emotional deprivation syndrome
He who cannot love another person does not love himself in the first place. The reason usually lies in the psychological trauma he received in childhood or in previous relationships. But sometimes it’s just a personality trait. How to recognize a person who personifies “dislike”?
1. He tends to blame others
A person who lives without love tends to blame others for the problems that arise – while he does not want to notice his mistakes and take responsibility. He views situations and interpersonal relationships solely through the prism of his own benefit.
2. Not ready to take responsibility for your mistakes
As we have already said, one who cannot truly love is not capable of taking responsibility for his mistakes. He almost does not notice his own misdeeds, does not know how to compromise and always stubbornly insists on his own. This is logical: if a person is so limited that he is not able to love even himself, how can he see his mistakes? He won’t even try.
3. Constantly looking for excuses
A closely related symptom: not being able to admit their mistakes, such people come up with various excuses for their behavior. For example: “Don’t be offended, I just drank too much” or “All because you constantly annoy me!” Is he so irritated that he loses his human form? Weak excuse!
4. Easily rejects people
He gets rid of things that are no longer useful or interesting without any hesitation, and bored relationships can often be on this list. He is indifferent to the feelings of another person, because the most important thing is his own benefit and pleasure.
5. Doesn’t want to change
Since a person who is far from love is not able to see his problems, he does not see the point in any changes.
6. Not ready to communicate
Due to the inability to love, as well as due to the general closeness and limitations, he rarely decides on frank conversations. Such a person accumulates resentment and discontent inside himself until the pressure of negative emotions becomes unbearable. And then there is an explosion.
7. He moves away from his partner
Due to the emotional closeness of your partner, you most likely do not immediately realize this. And then, while you are trying to somehow save the relationship, he will move away from you more and more.
8. Unhappy
Unable to love people are often unhappy. And the real reason for their unhappiness is that they simply do not know themselves.
9. Egocentric
The life of a person who does not know how to love is arranged simply: everything revolves around him, his desires and interests. He is not ready to understand himself and share. He just wants to take, take, take…
10.Inflexible
Such a person rarely differs in breadth of views and flexibility of thinking. Rather, on the contrary: he is prone to prejudice and negative stereotypes.
11. Worried about what they think of him
The approval of others for him is more important than the needs and needs of a partner.
12. Possibly suffers from emotional deprivation syndrome
This syndrome occurs due to the lack of emotional support from parents in childhood. In adulthood, such a person is most often not able to maintain healthy relationships, as he does not have the emotional knowledge and skills necessary for this. He does not understand what to do, where to start, how to react …
A person has never been allowed to sort out his feelings and experiences, so he does not know what to do with them. Even if he experiences something like love, he most likely will not understand it himself.