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It is always interesting to know what a new acquaintance is like. If a guy is handsome, well-groomed and well-dressed, it doesn’t mean anything. Now heterosexual men are also trying to be better than monkeys. Another thing is if you feel something strange in the behavior of a young man. Then you should pay attention to a number of signs that suggest that this attractive and caring guy already has another, no less attractive and caring boyfriend.
10 Excessive mannerism
Here you should pay attention to the voice and gestures.
If the guy’s speech is smooth, his voice is soft, as if iridescent, he slightly draws vowels – in the aggregate, this should alert you. “Blue” intonations are to some extent characteristic of all gays.
Femininity in manner can also be a hallmark. Of course, a straight man can move smoothly and beautifully, have expressive gestures and play beautifully with his fingers. He may have been a dancer for many years or a professional musician.
If a new acquaintance does not seek to loudly complain to you about a dozen years spent on the ballroom floor or at the piano for the sake of his beloved mother, but at the same time demonstrates an unusual mannerism in every gesture, this is alarming. Especially if he sits down and stands up beautifully, holding a glass or a cigarette, as if admiring himself from the outside.
9. Perfect look
Here you need to look at the clothes and grooming of the guy. This may be a natural, but they do not have a sense of style. If the guy is emphatically well-groomed, and his clothes and accessories look carefully matched to each other, most likely this gift is not for you.
8. Doesn’t talk about personal life
Gays are accustomed not to advertise their inclinations. Therefore, if a guy avoids talking about personal things, does not tell anything about his exes, this is also suspicious. Especially if his friends are also not aware of his personal life.
7. Direction of view
Try to watch the guy from the side when he does not see you. A normal one will look at girls with an undressing look, a gay man will look more at other men. Scroll through his photo on your phone – if there are only guys, it’s bad.
6. Abrupt change of interests
Gays do not have any special interests peculiar only to this subculture. But they tend to change their interests dramatically when changing partners. Therefore, if a guy changes his hobbies drastically from time to time, this may be due to his new personal life.
5. Specific tastes
It is unlikely that a gay will listen to “kid” music like rap. He would rather prefer intellectual musicals of the XNUMXth century, hits by world-famous bands like Queen, Rolling Stones.
4. Aversion to the opposite sex
Gays easily converge with women and make friends with them. They always notice the slightest changes in appearance, which, as a rule, you will not expect from straight people. However, they hate emphasized female sexuality. So, if a guy looks with disgust at a deep neckline or long legs of a girl, this is a very alarming signal.
3. Ask directly
Sometimes the best way is to ask directly. Gay men often worry about their orientation and tend to share their feelings with friends, especially after a couple of glasses of wine.
2. Ring
Gays don’t like to wear wedding rings, even when they’re married. They prefer talking about children to talking about their spouse.
The hallmarks of 100% gays are: a ring on the little finger of any hand or a ring of three colors of gold on any finger.
1. Handshake
A gay man’s handshake will be firm, but longer than a straight man’s. They also maintain long-term visual contact, as if evaluating the interlocutor.