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Among the large number of holidays, there is one special one, namely Valentine’s Day. A wonderful event when there is hope to hear the most intimate words, and if not to hear, then to receive evidence of tender feelings in the form of a gift.
Yes, and to express the languor of the soul on this wonderful and sanctioned day for love confessions. There are many people on earth who are waiting for miracles in the love sphere on this particular day. Many have a need to speak kind words and not be ridiculed – also on this day. And many people love to give gifts – and here Valentine’s Day comes in handy.
But it must be borne in mind that when one person does something pleasant for another, he bestows, first of all, himself. Seeing the delight of a loved one when presenting a gift, the giver experiences even greater joy than the hero of the occasion. Looking through the gifts that people gave each other will take your breath away. Palaces, islands, cars.
But, if the donor is neither a millionaire, nor an Indian shah, nor a head of state, nor an official, then when making a gift to a loved one, one must take into account his tastes and preferences. Do not pursue the goal of giving anyhow and thereby spoil the relationship with a dear person.
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Valentine. Sweet little thing. Simple, small, low-budget and the most common courtesy.
Angels, swans, kittens next to dogs, gold and silver in the design, an unstoppable waltz of red hearts.
And many, many words. But these words do not come from the heart of the donor, but from an unknown manufacturer of this printing miracle.
Unfortunately, such a sign of attention has no addressee. It is not a touching reminder of a deep and true feeling that excites the donor.
Such a Valentine does not breathe love. But if the card is made by hand, then it will be a completely different story.
9. Paired gifts
Figurines of lovers, figurines made from a photo, portraits in a photo for two people, paired T-shirts, medals for two, key chains, and so on and so forth.
From these gifts one gets the feeling that words are no longer needed. Their unambiguity and good quality frightens. Such gifts look like a kind of talismans and a memory of love.
They have something from divination, spiritualism, mysticism. It is said that public opinion will not stigmatize one who, with the help of such a gift, reveals his sympathy. And if the donor is “bitten”, then you can always “disown”. And then the recipient will want to run to his mother, to his family, to be consoled.
In defense of paired gifts, I would like to note that they are usually made of durable materials. And they have a good shelf life.
8. Stuffed Toys
Plush animals. Such a gift comes from childhood. The gift will definitely be associated with the giver. Who does he see himself as? Teddy bear, lop-eared hare, salamander lizard?
They look sloppy and frivolous. You can collect a whole collection of toys, but whether they will advance the romantic story is doubtful. They might be good for pranks. But, as a rule, they only accumulate dust.
7. Sweets / champagne
More often used as a gift for lovely ladies. The gift is quite trivial. And it is associated with the sticker “Ministry of Health warns.”
The fact that an alcoholic drink was made many years ago and is branded does not mean at all that a lady will appreciate it. And since a representative of the fair sex has not yet been born who would not torture herself with diets, or she would not be allergic to chocolate, such a gift will most likely even require emergency assistance. On the other hand, I would like to emphasize that sweets can be given without a reason.
6. Souvenirs
A mug with a heart at the bottom, a watch with the name “Kama Sutra”, relaxation toys. Perhaps they will take their rightful place in the interior. But how they will tell about people’s feelings for each other is unclear.
On the day of confessions, people are more than ever set to speak and overflow with sublime feelings. And if a person is set up for such a conversation, then the design of the gift should be worthy.
5. Socks
This gift has been preserved since the time of the total shortage. When everything that could be obtained on occasion was presented as a gift. And since the case could not be repeated, there could be no talk of any brilliant ideas. Benefit was paramount.
Socks as a gift are presented by people who are worldly savvy and homely. They know that such a gift will always be in demand.
Giving socks and stockings should be done carefully. Because it is associated with different beliefs. So it is better not to present such gifts to people with superstitions.
4. Animals
A living being is presented as a gift. And many people at this moment begin to be disturbed by the most contradictory thoughts. After all, if it is a kitten or a puppy, then obviously he will become a member of the family of the gifted.
That tenderness, care, attention that should be intended for a loved one is rightfully wasted on a small fluffy creature. And now the meetings will be not so much of a romantic nature as reminiscent of a meeting of young veterinarians.
The responsibility for the one whom a person tames is colossal. For his health and education. Will the owner of such a gift want and be able to pay attention to a new friend. The question is far from idle.
3. intimate toys
Of course, such a gift will not leave anyone indifferent. It assumes a sufficient degree of trust in each other. Offers to improve in personal relationships, to work out issues of intimacy.
It can please, or it can scare, thereby revealing internal conflicts that can destroy relationships. Delicacy is lacking in gifts of this kind.
2. Crockery
Eternal flame. The Germans are confident that a modern woman can have only three “K”: kitchen, church and kinder.
If the person who receives the gift is from Europe, then they will surely understand him. But if not, then you should think about whether the companion will be delighted with such a gift.
1. Personal Care Products
Well, indeed. Advertising is so powerful that not to use and not to please a dear person with a gift from this series is simply the height of recklessness. But they refer to gifts “with a hint.” The gifted person can be put in an awkward position.
Women, for the most part, are brilliantly versed in the nuances of self-care. These are their personal secrets, feelings, fears, joys and hopes. And let this world be closed to the stronger sex.
In conclusion, it is worth noting that on such a wonderful holiday you do not need:
- give formal gifts;
- use template approaches;
- leaving a loved one without a gift at all;
- hope that the gift will replace personal participation.
Only personal charm, sincerity and joy of the moment can take the relationship of lovers to a new level.