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You definitely need to be in time – there will be no time for them later!
The third and final trimester of pregnancy is like a roller coaster. Mood swings, emotionality become faithful companions in the life of the expectant mother. And how many worries and concerns: how will life change after the birth of a baby? How does it all go? Am I really ready? To help get rid of worries, we have compiled a checklist for expectant mothers: what needs to be done in the third trimester.
Arrange a date
You will not have time for your husband for the first month after giving birth, that’s for sure. And even more. And even if your attention is enough for both the man and the baby, it will be difficult to remain alone. Well, to go out somewhere together … Do not miss the opportunity to chat with loved ones: with your beloved, with relatives, with friends. Dating, picnics, going to the cinema and cafes, a romantic candlelight dinner – let this time be remembered by you imbued with love.
Write a letter to the kid
Mothers sometimes do this: they write a letter to their unborn baby. Now you are inextricably linked, the child hears you, and you feel his every movement and even hiccups. You saw his face on ultrasound, maybe even 3D. You already imagine what you will do together: walk, play, talk. Write about all this. And hand over the letter later when the baby is old enough to understand.
Collect the bag to the hospital
And it would be better to always take it with you if you are going somewhere far from home. Childbirth can begin at any time, the preliminary date of birth for that and the preliminary one – no one will name the exact one. And it would be better to have a bag with everything you need, including documents and an exchange card, with you. The bag can be bought already with the filling, or you can assemble it yourself – read more about this at the link.
Find a pediatrician
Have you already thought who will “guide” your baby? You can trust the district pediatrician, or you can choose a doctor in advance: ask friends, read reviews. Some mothers even prefer to apply for a VHI in order to be able to choose a pediatrician they really trust. And the point is not even that doctors in children’s clinics are not like that. The point is in her mother’s anxiety: she is calmer if she is definitely sure of the doctor who is taking care of her baby.
Buy a nursing bra and comfy clothes
Previously, there was no point in doing this: the breasts were still changing, growing, and the bras bought in advance could turn out to be small. And it will not hurt to update the wardrobe: “pre-pregnant” clothes are not a fact that they will fit and will be comfortable, but “pregnant” ones will surely become big. This does not mean that you need to spend crazy money on new clothes, but a couple of really comfortable clothes are worth buying. Especially if you are going to breastfeed – not every blouse will work here.
Buy a dowry for a child
Signs assure that it is by no means possible to buy children’s things before the birth of a baby. However, you shouldn’t believe the signs either. It is better to trust common sense in this matter: after giving birth, it will no longer be up to you to run around the shops, choosing undershirts, a crib and a child seat in the car. Moreover, it is problematic to take away from the hospital without the last baby. You can, of course, entrust this question to your husband and relatives. But who said you would like their choice?
Wash baby clothes
As well as blankets, bedding and toys – everything that can be washed is best washed and ironed in advance. However, we are sure that it would never occur to anyone to use the item for its intended purpose, which is only from the store, bypassing the washing machine. It is important to choose a mild detergent that will not cause allergies in your child. And the word “child” on the label is not a guarantee of safety – it is better to ask experienced mothers.
Pamper yourself
You deserve it. You have already done so much for a new little person to be born that it’s time to arrange a small holiday for yourself. Go for a pedicure, spa, arrange a photo shoot – you just need something nice. Only manicure is better to do without coating, in the maternity hospital they are unfriendly to nail polish.
Pay attention to your husband
But only with the permission of your gynecologist. Sex in the third trimester can trigger preterm labor. But a little affection still didn’t hurt anyone. Moreover, very soon you will not have time for each other. The romance between you will have to be missed for more than one month. So take the time to strengthen your relationship.
Prepare for childbirth
It is not enough just to collect the bag. You need to think about who you want to give birth to, what kind of anesthesia to do, decide on the issue of vaccinations – all this needs to be taken care of in advance. Maybe you decide that you still want to give birth under a contract, and not under compulsory medical insurance. It will not be superfluous to go to preparation courses for childbirth, where they will teach you how to breathe correctly and tell you what to expect in this process – unless, of course, you have not done so yet.