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- 1. He is punctual
- 2. He wears clothes that make him comfortable.
- 3. He understands jokes
- 4. He asks good questions…
- 5. He doesn’t reach his phone at all
- 6. He is polite to others
- 7. He talks about loved ones with love
- 8. He doesn’t judge anyone
- 9. His eyes are burning
- 10. You want to meet him again and again
Try to answer the question: what kind of person would you invite to dinner if you had such an opportunity? And not to discuss something important, but just to enjoy a pleasant company. We do not take a partner, family members and friends – who would it be from the outer circle? Come up with? Most likely, this person is distinguished by at least a few traits from our list – or all at once.
1. He is punctual
Such a person will definitely not forget about your invitation and will come on time, since meeting with you is really important for him. Moreover, he will be in a calm, relaxed state, because he hasn’t “barely squeezed” your meeting into his busy schedule. And a nice bonus: he will not start talking about his affairs and problems from the threshold, without caring whether you are interested in it or not.
2. He wears clothes that make him comfortable.
A pleasant conversationalist will definitely not spend a lot of time (and money) on picking out a special outfit for your dinner. What he wears always reflects his personality, even if it doesn’t quite match the unspoken dress code of the chosen place. And, of course, your counterpart is neat.
3. He understands jokes
Ideally, such a person has a great sense of humor … But even if this is not the case, at least he does not take himself too seriously and will laugh at your joke with pleasure.
4. He asks good questions…
…But it doesn’t go where it doesn’t belong. He is really interested in other people and events taking place in the world, so the conversation with such a person flows smoothly. During the meeting, you have time to discuss a million different topics, while the interlocutor asks only about you and what you are interested in, and does not try to burden you with your problems and questions in the spirit of “How can I live this life?”.
5. He doesn’t reach his phone at all
Communicating with you, a pleasant interlocutor does not flip through the social media feed and does not take pictures of the ordered dishes in order to immediately post the picture on Instagram. Doesn’t text other people to set up the next meeting or read the news to update you on the coronavirus situation… He’s here with you, in the moment, and fully involved in what’s going on.
6. He is polite to others
In this case – with service personnel. If this is not the case, then it definitely negates the rest of its virtues.
7. He talks about loved ones with love
Of course, such an interlocutor will not overload you with the details of family life, showing you a hundred photographs of their children. He can’t do it – as you remember, the phone was left in his pocket or bag. However, if you ask yourself, he will gladly talk about his relatives, and pride and love will sound in his voice.
8. He doesn’t judge anyone
Yes, he has his own opinion on most important issues, but he does not try to impose it on you – nor does he criticize or condemn others. He does not complain about relatives, the boss and school teachers of his child, even if there are plenty of reasons for complaints. He does not discuss how the lady at the next table “dressed up”. He is clearly guided by the message “live and let live”, and it’s damn captivating.
9. His eyes are burning
Because there is a passion in his life – work, hobby, sports, art, family or something else – and he talks about it passionately. That kind of energy is incredibly contagious.
10. You want to meet him again and again
And you never deny yourself this. As soon as the dinner is over, you, without putting off the question indefinitely, agree on the next meeting. And very soon these meetings grow into a real strong friendship.